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Hello,

I've had an online friendship with someone a few years ago; we meant a lot to each other and we discussed anything. We've had our ups and downs. Her other friend didn't want her to speak to me again and I don't know why; so we haven't spoken to each other for a long time. We only wished each other a happy birthday on our birthdays.
I decided to reach out to her again. To keep her anonymous I'm going to call her Abby.

Dialogue summary over the past 2 months
Me: Hi Abby, we haven't spoken to each other in a while. Are you okay? I hope you're still healthy and doing well.
No answer, she's been busy nor has been active at all
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On her birthday
Me: Happy birthday Abby, I hope you're doing well.
Still no answer
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Me: Can you please respond or come online soon? I'm starting to get worried.
Abby: Hey, thanks for worrying, I'm ok I hope you are too
Me: Thank you for letting me know, I'm okay too.
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A few days later
Me: Do you want to talk soon?
Abby: I'm sorry, not really
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Ever since I've been questioning myself; should I just unfriend her? She has hurt me so much. I tried to talk about the situation to someone else and they say that I've been too nice and too patient. I've given her so many chances and she only comes to me whenever she feels like it even though it's rarely ever. What should I do? Just leave it? Say something? Leaving it and doing nothing makes me feel like I'm making myself available when I shouldn't; I'm hurt.

You can comment and/or vote to give your answers, advice, whatever feels best for you. Thank you for reading, helping and understanding me. I appreciate it a lot. :)