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Im 26 and work in the service industry. I dont consider myself super attractive and lack confidence. Ill have my “cute” days and that is about it. However, I am told by friends, coworkers, and family that I rank higher on the hot scale then I feel... so why is it that only either unattractive or much older (and usually crude) men approach and hit on me? I can honestly say only one guy that was pretty attractive made any moves... he was also 8 shots deep and would probably fuck tree if it blew in his direction. But it raises the question! Am I just really unappealing? Do I scare people away? Do I have angry eyebrows/resting bitch face? Im very easy to talk to... Im just not a conversation instigator. I have high anxiety but I can usually hide it. I fail to make eye contact and will do things like play with my hair/phone/jewelry when Im nervous. Would it be my body language? And if so... why do such scummy men feel confident enough to cross the line? Do I come off as desperate or vunerable? Or am I just so accustomed to the bluntness that I fail to notice? Its not for an ego boost or reassurance. I am genuinely curious on the thought process.

He and I have a close relationship. We’ve been together for about 2 years now, and he tells me he loves me all the time. He’s close with my family, I’m close with his... he just invited me to have Thanksgiving with them actually. We spend a ton of time together and only fight once in a while.

I noticed something weird with his coworker though. Not sure if i should be concerned. When i went to visit him, he became very stiff and when we walked past her desk he separated himself from me as though he were pretending we weren’t together. Also, when i went to his holiday party both last year and this year, he kept staring at her and was giving the guy she was with dirty looks. I know another one of his coworkers and I discreetly asked if it seemed like something was going on, and she said they hardly talk but he stares at her at work and, when they do talk, he seems nervous or something.

Do you think he has feelings for her?