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I'm 20 years old and I know I can't drink yet but obviously nobody waits till they're 21 to drink. But i really don't like drinking, it burns my throat, it's bitter, and it hurts my stomach. I've tried liquor, wine, champagne, beer, and mixed drinks, i just don't like drinking at all. I don't like partying, i'd rather be at home playing video games or at the bookstore, and spending time with my family. I'm a virgin and waiting till marriage. I did have a boyfriend but i broke up with him. I'm an open person so if anyone asks me if i do these things then i answer honestly and I get made fun of, i don't get upset or offended but i don't see why it's frowned upon.
I've never been comfortable around strangers but im not as shy as i used to be. Working as a waitress helped me out to be more talkative. I just have no interest in drinking or having sex, and going out to clubs. I left out drugs but i'd lie if i said i didn't do that ;) nothing bad just Mary Jane.

Do I have a chance?

Ok so, I have been into this grl foir a while, a few months. I was getting mixed signals, she keeps hanging out but won't talk or shell ask me out but she doesn't act like she's interested when we hang out.. For a while I thought maybe she is shy. But then how can shge ask me out. So I got tired of it, and i finally asked her 'what he wanted from me.' She said :

"Don't ask me that. I don't want you to do what you think i want, I want you to do what you want, and let me DECIDE if what you want is something I want, and or can be compatible with. If you are acting just to get something, then we will never know if we would work together.. Stop treating me like I am playing games, just because I want you to be honest in what you say and what you do--To be who who you really are insterad of trying to figure me out and control everything. "

Guys im really confused. I did not think i was doing all of this, but maybe i was / am. Is she saying she might actually want something? Am i reading that wrong? I can not tell if she is rejecting me, or saying she is considering me. What do you think?

I would appreciate advice.
I am just thinking what the hell is up.
Do I have a chance, What is she asking?
Is it a cofde for something, do you think its a game?
Is she toying with me, or is it possible I have not been clear?
Is this a normal way for her to talk?
What was I supposed to say?
Did i mess up my chances being quiet.
I know i paused too long, but it was out of no where.

I know I seem inexperienced but I have had gfs.. I just do not understand her. She is just different. But I do like her. But I feel so dumb around her sometimes. We are not even having sex. Not to be a jerk but its been months and we are not dating or having sex, so I just dont understand and I feel like she is blaming me... Is it my fault? This is like a headace that will not leave. Not her, just this.