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Search Results: self harm
Would you date someone who used to self harm?
Would their scars bother you? No this question is not about me lol
Silent_Eyes
Xper 7 Age: 25 How do I breakup with her?
How do i break up with my girlfriend? I want to break up because i feel it just won’t work out, and i realized I’m not ready for a relationship either. But the thing is that she’s suicidal, depressed and self harms, so...
Anonymous
(25-29) Be careful dishing out an unqualified diagnosis on your Ex and what Personality Disorder you "feel" they have. This is dangerous..
This is a response, (previously posted as guidance and subsequently blocked), to an individual, who posted a vindictive person's "false victimhood narrative" to explain why consecutive ex-girlfriends removed him from...
Grobmate
Explorer Age: 45 I'm really worried about my ex... he is in a really bad place how do I help?
So me and my ex dated for 4 years, he is a great guy he has such a good heart and he's the sweetest guy I know but we broke up about 5 weeks ago because I had to move to a new city across the country.. I didn't want to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do old coping mechanisms ever stop coming to mind?
I'm in a rough spot. I've been depressed for as long as I can remember due to trauma. Now I'm sad a lot less often and have been recovering nicely, but whenever my mind races or I become overly depressed or overwhelmed, I...
Anonymous
(25-29) As time goes on, more women than men seem to be suffering from mental illness, is modernization hostile to women?
Modernization is often associated with urbanization, coincidentally mental illness is more prevalent in urban environment than in the countryside. Therefore there is perhaps a correlation between...
esotericstory
Guru Age: 31 What would you do if your date had self harm scars?
New or otherwise, how does it make men feel? I always want to ask this question but I know there is not easy way to answer it without hurting her feelings in some kind of way? I’ve had some guys caress me like I was a map...
Anonymous
(25-29) I’m very prone to depression and self harm but I can’t get help because I don’t have insurance is there anything I can do?
I hope someone has some ideas for me I’m getting worried I’ve been cutting myself every week for a while.
ElizaPam
Yoda Age: 31 Trained fighters... have you ever gotten to show off your skills in self defense?
It's really a satisfying moment to be calm and collected in midst of someone trying to physically harm you. Knowing that you can easily defend yourself and put someone in their place. I was a high school wrestler, and...
TonyBologna25
Yoda Age: 32 How to deal with depressive partner?
Hi, im in a long distance relationship, my partner is depressed (he’s not kind of self harm) but I don’t know how to deal with it. He doesn’t want my help, he says he has to work on himself alone. I’m feeling like...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do you think its possible my father started my depression and self harm?
My mom died and I had to move in with my dad at 11. My mom divorced him because he cheated and he abused her. So it's been me and him for 7 years or so. I believe the first time I c*t myself was 7th grade ( so...
Anonymous
(18-24) Relearning the "Masculine Love Language": A Guide to Honour Codes
The Love Language is a term I've borrowed from ancient Vedic and Buddhist occult understandings of the Masculine and Feminine. Although I'm a European who loves his own people's culture, this same knowledge can be found...
FreshOutaIdeas
Explorer Age: 31 Why do abusive or self harming people attract me?
I've always had interest in either abuse girls or self harming ones. I've always liked extremes, an extremely quiet girl that is completely anti-social and scared to death of the outside world, or a girl thats completely...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I give up talking to this girl?
I have been talking to this girl for a little while and she really likes me and I really like her and we've hung out and cuddled and kissed before but there is a problem. She has a boyfriend. She is definitely interested...
Anonymous
(18-24) Would You Still Date Someone If They Had a Bad Past?
I just started dating a wonderful guy a month ago. He is very mature, attentive, sweet, and he treats me really well. I've been holding back some information about myself because I'm afraid he will judge me. My family...
Anonymous
(25-29) A Girl I Hate is in Love with my Boyfriend. What should I do?
I've been dating this guy for about a year, and yesterday he told me that one of his best friends has a crush on him. Apparently it has been going on since basically as long as we've been dating and he's been trying to...
Anonymous
(18-24) Have you ever experienced 'the call of the void'?
The call of the void is basically the urge to jump when you are stood on a high ledge (be it a bridge, cliff or a high balcony, etc) without actually wanting to jump and not accompanied by suicidal thoughts or the split...
Anonymous
(18-24) 
How do you guys coop with the loss of a loved one?
So this year in February, I lost another childhood friend unexpectedly. I saw the heartbreaking text we all got from his mother. She said he had a seizure and must of bumped his head. My heart goes out to his mom, dad,...
MizzArtFreak89
Xper 5 Age: 36 
AkshiJanjua
Yoda Age: 28 How do I become more humble?
So here’s the deal. I’m pretty intelligent and very good at pretty much every subject at school. Above average in everything and top student in my class in many things. I wouldn’t say it has always come easy to me - I do...
cakelover101
Xper 5 Age: 29 