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1. Do guys normally ask a lot of open ended questions when texting with a girl they like? Or are they like that with everyone?
2. Do guys usually mirror the time it takes for the girl to respond to a text?
3. Do guys usually end conversations with "I'll ttyl" or "goodnight" if you're speaking late?
4. What does it mean if a guy starts calling you "fam" once in a while? Friend zone?
5. Do guys normally like to talk to girls their interested about their future plans? Like what they're going to study in college and stuff?
6. Do guys usually tell girls when they're sad about something school related (grades) or personal (like mom in hospital)?
7. Do guys usually text like thisss?
8. Do guys re-read old texts between them and a crush like girls do?
9. Do guys usually apologize with an explaination if they take more than 3 hours to respond?
10. Do guys usually let their friends know if they have to do something and can't keep talking?
11. How do guys feel when girls call them "bro"? I've called him this a few times...

Asking cause I have a guy friend that I have a crush on and he texts like that. The thing that throws me off is he never texts first except for once to say Happy New Year and another time to ask me to proof read his college application essay. A week will go by without us speaking because I try waiting for him to text first and he doesn't. I text him about every 5 days do we can catch up with each others lives (we go to different HS but we're good friends in elementary and middle school). Also, he told me once that he doesn't like texting that much because he has better things to do with his time.

My questions are about guys texting behaviors but I would also like to know if maybe the way he texts means he's interested too.

Thanks to all those who took the time to answer! :D

POLL QUESTION: Does his behaviour mean anything?

The ones I am friends with I gave taken it upon myself to friend request and introduce myself and become FB friends with. My problem is suddenly he is commenting to pictures of beautiful women who he has not talked to since school. We are 50 years old. And I know he has private messaged them telling them how beautiful and smart they are and how he wanted them to know he was thinking about them. We had a problem with this issue over a year ago. He would get a message from an ex once a month or so and would tell me if I asked that he doesn't like to hurt anyone feelings and it was just Hi how are you doing chit chat. One eveneing we were laying in bed looking at facebook and he handed me his phone to read something and when I went scroll the page changed and it was his his pm list and I saw that she had messaged him "I miss you too". I was crushed because that was not chit chat. I had told him from the begining I did not like him talking to him. Long back story but she only had a relationship with him for money. Then ran of and married her exfiance two weeks after sleeping with him. And was continually telling him she made a mistake and she loved him when he was starting to have a relationship with me. That night things blew up and there was a lot if silence and tears from me after our screaming match. He told me when I moved up he had no secrets from me he was an open book. Left his facebook signed in and gave me his passwords for online. Ibread the messages that were not deleted. Ther were only 3. She said ahe was thinking about him a lot. He replied he was thinking about her too and he "I miss my squishy". To which she replied I miss you too. My heart was crushed we talked at length on the third day. He said he meant he missed the people he had worked with. He also deleted her and blocked her from his phone. He wanted to delete his facebook because he didn't want me telling him who he can and cannot talk too. I told him that was not my intention and ibdid not want