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PROMISE ME! that you will at least vote.

I was kid, back then this promise was a very common thing, we ( i & my childhood friends) used to make too many promises to everyone around, to our teachers, to our principal, to each other, to parents.😂
Not even 10% of those made promises we would accomplish.
Soon that trend faded away as i became a teen. But still i used to make promises several times in a month.
Later i started to realise that Promise is a very valuable thing. I barely uphold it. Not only i am diminishing its worth but also mine.
So when i was close to end of teenage i realise that i cannot keep up the promises , so i should better avoid them.
It made things little easy.
I used to make promise for myself as well as other,
The one about myself, if failed i could cope with it in few days.
But when i failed my promise with others, especially when they were important, it was very hard to move on from its regret, it would haunt me for weeks. And i may have lost their trust somewhere.
So i decided to not make anymore promises!
If anyone asked about making one, i would neither say 'yes' nor say 'no'. I would be confused and try to dust it off and escape.

Now nobody asks me except for small kids, and they dont make big ones, so its bit easy now.

What about you?
I do not keep up my promise, in simple😂.

If I am in a monogamous relationship, obviously I enjoy being with my partner and I want to see her frequently. But. . . too frequently too soon leads to many relationships burning out quickly. Initially, I try to stay with once per week (usually Friday or Saturday night) and maybe move to twice per week after perhaps 3-4 month. Then I might occasionally suggest meeting for dinner one night during the week. That seems to be the pattern I follow but I am flexible and take my partner's wishes into account.

How do you like to begin monogamous relationships? How often do you want to see each other initially?