Search Results: wanting flings

Has Anyone Ever Had A Work Romance?

We met each other at work. I work at a hospital health library, and he is this big time manager there. It started of cute and sweet little hello's. All the sudden he was buying food for me and then he gave me his number...

Danithegreat

Xper 3 Age: 36

Guy's Behavior

Mean anything he says happy birthday?

Had maybe so called “summer fling” with a guy, I wanted serious he doesn’t and he meant it that he doesn’t want any relationship but building startups. He said several time he likes me so I guess he meant it as well....

Anonymous

(18-24)

Difference between casual and seriously interested?

There are some obvious behaviours men and women have when dealing with casual flings vs. Someone they want to date. I was wondering if in certain situations those clear behaviour differences were blurred? And how long...

anutza

Xper 4 Age: 32

Why am I not good enough for him?

So I’ve been semi dating an old fling from my teen years. We both reconnected after both ending long term relationships. I was with my ex for 13 years and he’s been divorced a year after being married for 17. I do realize...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Need some advice how to handle this girl or what I should do moving on?

(31y/o) Normally I've been pretty decent at indicators on when a girl is into me. I've had 2 serious relationships in the past, and the casual flings last relationship which ended last May after being together for about 6...

TwizzStang04

Xper 5 Age: 37

Girlfriend cheated, so here I am?

Hey guys, I'm just gonna explain a little bit. My girlfriend, on and off for a year, were having Valentine's day time last night since she works today. We exchanged gifts and all for our second Valentine's day. She got a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Marriage & Weddings

Is it weird that I'm afraid to get married?

I'm 23 years old. Currently not in a relationship, I want a serious relationship not just some fling. But I'm afraid to get married. My family and some of my parent's friend keep introducing guys to me. But I don't want...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Married 14 years with 2 kids and it's going downhill. Need help to make it work?

My wife and I can never seem to understand each other. We never seem to be on the same page. This has been going off and on for years and I can't do it anymore. We haven't talked or slept together in months. Our only...

Fat30y

Xper 3 Age: 49

From my this text by my ex , do I stand of chance of getting back?

We broke up over a month ago. Anyway, I messaged her that I missed her and for the past 2 weeks I’ve been trying to see her and get back together. She only lives 5 minutes away and I just want her and to see her. She...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Should I tell a guy how I feel if he’s in a relationship?

I don't know if this guy is in a relationship or if it’s just a fling it seemed to have happened all of a sudden. I noticed him and this girl became friends on Instagram recently didn’t think too much of it and found out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Messaging and old fling?

Is it worth messaging somone if you still think about them, even after 5 years. I'm in a relationship and I think they're in one too but I think about them often. I dont even know what I want to come from messaging them....

Anonymous

(25-29)

My wife and I split up. It's been almost a year. What do I do now?

I have felt so alone, and isolated. I was in a bad spot for a good while, and I'm not sure I'm fully recovered, but I've accepted the reality of things and have decided to try to get back out into the world. I want...

EchoicReticence

Xper 3 Age: 30

My uneventful dating life and losing desire in pursuing...And what you & I can learn from it, hopefully!

I remember being in the 1st grade and I had a crush on this cute brunette girl, I remember telling her that "I liked her" and her bluntly saying that she liked "someone else". I can't remember the extent of the details...

WhateverMayBeWillBe

Yoda Age: 37

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If an old flame hits up on Facebook to "reconnect" But as you're talking to her, says she's in a serious relationship, why did she hit you up?

Complicated. Very complicated. So a girl I dated for about 2 seconds a few years ago, just hit me up. Says she wants to reconnect. And then she tells me she is in a serious relationship. So why the reconnection? Is it she...

BradFlipK

Xper 5 Age: 42

Am I selling myself short by settling for flings and casual fun/sex?

I'm 24. Been trying for a few years to have a proper relationship with multiple guys. First there was boyfriend 1 who turned out to be a little bit of an asshole. We dated for about 6 months and he was very controlling...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys in general prefer sweet and innocent girls or do they like girls who are sexually confident and go for what they want?

I mean in relationship and in bed. I know some guys like to take the lead so they prefer sweet and nice girls but they are often shy so usually the guys have to make the move first and then in bed guys have to heat things...

PixieDust

Xper 6 Age: 48

If a past fling stays in touch after moving away, does he still want you or does he just want your attention?

if it was never serious due to returning home to another country

Anonymity123999

Xper 6 Age: 32