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Perhaps a month ago, I asked users how they envisioned their life being different 5 years from now and whether they had a plan for bringing about the changes that they wanted. A few responders were apathetic or pessimistic but most envisioned some positive changes. However, very few expressed any plan for how they would make those changes happen.

I believe that self-confidence is one of the most important qualities a guy can have for attracting a partner for a long term relationship. I also think that having a plan and following a plan is a large component of self-confidence. Having a plan does not necessarily mean going to college, getting a business job, wearing a suit every day. It can mean going to a vocational school or serving an apprenticeship and becoming a journeyman in a trade. (A journeyman electrician can earn $75,000 per year; the average pay for a locomotive engineer is $110,000 per year.)

So now I am asking if a guy having a plan for how he wants to improve his life, and then actually following that plan, makes a guy more attractive to you as a potential partner for a long term relationship.

I’ve been listening to a lot of podcasts about the topic of choosing who to date, marry & have kids with. And it’s fascinating cause supposedly it’s more to what the world perceives as the “perfect man” or “perfect woman” some of it has to do with your genetics. For example, in most cases females choose to be with men that share qualities that their father’s have. And they were saying that this is because of the fact that they share the genetic makeup of their mothers as well so what their mother found attractive in their father they seek those same things in men...

Aside from that though, they didn’t say that was 100% legitimate but studies have suggested it.

Also that people choose their partners based on certain qualities they lack. Being physical or personality traits.

For example is why most but not all women would rather marry and have children with a tall, strong man vs the opposite of that. Especially if they are short and tiny.

It’s all about the chance of the child surviving and thriving after procreation. But what’s insane is that in a now modern and civilized world we never think of this. But it’s a natural way of thinking that has been embedded into our dna for centuries

I have noticed this quite a bit recently. Attractive, fun, intelligent, women, who have quality single men lining up to date them would rather knowingly be with a man who is married or is cheating on his live in girlfriend.

Do they actually think they will leave their wives?

Because they never do! FYI these guys are laughing at the mistresses who think they will leave their wives/girlfriends!

Why not date quality single guys?