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Black guys are always accused of dating down hooking up with either fat or unattractive white women. Now even though I see ALL races of men dating fat, unattractive women of ALL races, black guys seem to get the most attention from society when they date these women. Why is that? Now I heard people come up with some lame excuse on why this happens and Here's some excuses

1. white women are weak and easy

2. Black men think every white female is top shelf, the best regardless of looks and status.

So I did a test. I knew a guy who was going out with a ugly fat white girl so I got a picture of this guy of just him on my phone and showed other black women. Every black woman I showed this picture said that he was unattractive. I told them that he has a girlfriend and that she was white and they were just shcoked that he had a girlfriend at all because they said he was ugly. So I asked a few black women was he "dating down" because you know that black men are supposed to be notorious for "dating down" and they told me that no not at all because the guy is ugly and he one of those guys who has to take what he can get. I asked these females so what's with this accusation about black emn dating down and they told me that those black guys with fatand/or unattractive trashy white women are the black men that black women don't even want . So why are these men accused of "dating down" and people who claim this why don't you interfere and tell them that they can do better?

Hi, I'm 22 and have never been in a relationship. I'm not horribly misshaped or otherwise unattractive. But I am a little bit socially naive though I don't think this effects me very much. I've dated around and tried to get myself out there, even used internet dating for a bit, but it's just never happened for me. For all but two of the women I've talked to and dated the reason they didn't workout is mostly because of me. Usually after a while I lose interest and back off, because I just stop feeling it as far as I know. I don't dislike them after a bit but I just don't feel that compelled to put effort into them. And I know someone of them really really liked me but I just couldn't go with it. And it sucks because it's my fault they are getting disappointed cause I'm the one trying to meet people. For the two exceptions I didn't get to that point at all. After I got to know them a little bit, I was always fully interested in them and put effort into pursuing them, but they didn't work for reasons outside of my control.

Even now I'm getting to know these two other girls and it seems like they may be interested in starting to seriously date but lo and behold I'm losing interest and fine myself less and less compelled to put in the effort. So, idk, am I too picky, or have I just been unlucky and it'll happen when it happens?

Or do I have some kind of mental problem or what lol