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OK so obviously this is about me and I am with an accident prone guy.
Me:. I always pay the bills, can you do this one time
Him:. OK. Later he tells me he forgot the password that he made, and we are logged out of all our accounts. We have to call to unlock but he has t. He is too busy and can not for a long time. In other words, something that should take 5 minutes online will now take a couple months.

Me:. Can you not promote your ex?
Him:. If your friends slept with another person or lied or cheated and stole from you, it's OK. But it's not OK if I do it? You are such a hater and I can do whatever I want. I am a grown man. If I want to hang out with her, it's none of your business. This is my boundaries. Goes and hangs out with ex. Later sleep over with ex.

Me:. I washed ten loads of your laundry, can you do your last load
Him:. That's like me doing my dishes and telling you that I won't do yours. He does dishes every night and piles them incorrectly in the dishwasher. I end up doing them every morning. He also said that I complain about doing his laundry (which I did one time and never again). And he says that his friends wives do their laundry and make them breakfast in bed.
Needless to say, I told him I don't trust him and I can't count on him anymore. He has gotten really angry at me and started to ignore me. What can I do?

guy friend of 2 years eft a few days ago. he put it off for a while and he tried to get me to ask him to stay but i couldn't... last time he tried was the last i saw him. he didn't even say good bye but left me a note saying he's been in love with me since we met and a whole bunch of explanations about miscommunication and reasons he never said anything. it all makes sense and i know how difficult things were especially because i've always been very uncomfortable with expressing feelings and feeling them. i never told him i'm in love with him too. i know its probably kind of too late to be together bc he left and probably decided to move on bc i never gave any indication i'm interested in more, but i still want to tell him how i feel. i know some of you will say i should leave him be but its important to me to tell him so i've decided. i'm going to take a trop to see a friend and on my way i'm stopping in his home town. ask him if we can talk. if he says no i have a letter to give him he can read it or not in his own time.

i'm tempted to just go to his house and if its a bad time i can stop by on my way back. we've never been good at organizing things by phone and i'm concerned hell think its a trick and not show up, whereas seeing me seems to have a calming effect most of the time... however if its not one of those times if he's hurt/ defensive, and i show up he might be angry hell refuse to talk, so I don't know.

he did show up at my house without telling me and walked in without even knocking to tell me how he felt, so i wouldn't technically be doing anything worse especially since ill knock.

honestly id just like to get this done in as few steps as possible. if i just show up he's there or not and i can give the letter if not. ill probably never see him again so i feel like i can afford to do one big thing once. plus if he actually has been in love he should be glad to see me-no? i also feel like its braver to just show up. i want to BE there. not ask.