Search Results: getting closure

What does it mean when I give back her stuff?

I want to know what does it mean to me and to her, when i give back her stuff. She broke up with me months ago and she recently said things that hurt, like that she made a mistake but she doesn't want to make me think...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My EX had an affair with me after getting a new girlfriend. Help?

So, I'll try to make this story as short as possible. Here is the backstory: me and this guy were in complete love, but we rushed into a relationship before I fell in love. He never did relationships, only used girls, but...

BellaBeckham

Xper 5 Age: 31

Wrote the ex a letter. What do you think?

Without going into a novel. We had a long term relationship almost 5 years, that ended... well, weird. We clearly still had feelings for each other but she got into another relationship superfast. Distance was an issue as...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girlfriend Essentially Told Me To F Off?

We met in high school. Started off not wanting a relationship at all, but she was so intriguing. I fell for her pretty hard. And she was right along with me. We spent the rest of the year nearly inseparable. I graduated....

ClarkGreen111

Xper 4 Age: 31

Why did he freak out when I surprisingly got my period while having sex?

He's 23 and I'm 36. We've had sex a few times, when one night, I got my period while getting busy. He freaked and got really mad. It was a bit all over... a little on the sheets, on his dick and thighs and some from a...

boogienights

Xper 4 Age: 49

Guy I like is still in love with ex, what should I do?

So ever since the second week of college I've had feelings for this guy that lives in my dorm hall. He's one of those guys that makes me laugh uncontrollably and is a great athlete. We have tons of things in common and we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does my ex want to talk face to face?

I broke up with my ex months ago due to her depression just getting out of hand and not treating me correctly. I made attempts for awhile to talk to her but she was just always angry and on the defensive. Now, she wants...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Did I lose my last chance of getting him back?

Sorry this is so long but I have been crying over him for a really long time and I need advice. So I dated a guy for three years. We loved each other. Then he started hating me for no reason and went on vacation where he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

More than friends or just friends?

I met this guy 2 years ago, he had just moved to my city. We got close for about a month and then he left to college in another country. We would hang out all the time and he even told a friend of mine that he thought I...

pollybby2

Xper 5 Age: 36

Messed up history but we've been hanging out again and I like it. maybe we can start over. thing is I don't know if I should hang out or 'come clean'?

dated year ago. i screwed up due to inexperience and emotional reservation. I didn't cheat or anything i was just a jerk. never explained that i really like him and my behavior wasn't bc of him or anything he did......

Anonymous

(30-35)

Weird situation with ex? please help!?

So my ex boyfriend and I dated for 6 months. the last month, he started acting kind of strange. He would act silent and kind of distant. I thought him and his friends were talking badly about me to one another. and I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Ok this girl I date better gets her act together, because I have homicidal fantasies. I still have feelings for her but I can't controll it longer?

If she keeps playing me like that, and is not willing to give me closure, i could end up , doing whats best for me. im not an agressive kind of person, but i do have a violent temper when people inflict injustice on me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

GIRLS/GUYS: I was used for 2 years... need advice on getting closure!?

There is a girl who I was really good "friends" with the first few years of university. We had a falling out this past year because I don't like her girlfriend and it created a lot of problems. We have not talked in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Can you ever redeem yourself after acting needy with a guy? I'm better than this and need closure?

Sooo I emailed my crush practically telling him how I felt, along the lines of how I've acted needy bc of his indifference and how disappointed I am he gave up on me so soon. That I love myself more and that I'm worth...

RenBri

Xper 5 Age: 38

He broke it off. Why can't he see me and talk about it - for closure?

I had a bad breakup with my ex a month ago. He suddenly went cold after going back to his old job, making up excuses and getting defensive when confronted (plus I had trust issues with him because I caught him flirting a...

silvercoins

Xper 4 Age: 36

How can I get inside his head?

So I'm getting a little confused. I was seeing this guy for about four months until he decided to end it with me after some stupid stuff that happened. But anyway it ended horrible, we never got a closure. We didn't talk...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He asked for my number, but now what?

Guy I used to have a thing for ended up to be the bad boy type, and we went our separate ways. I tried getting in contact with him a while back for several reasons, but he didn't answer his texts, wouldn't answer the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is getting closure a good idea?

CellLuddite

Xper 7 Age: 39