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We had a connection I had never experienced before. We started off as friends with benefits but once we stopped having sex we still had this space where we could talk about anything. We would talk about people we met on Tinder, dates we went on, sex experiences good or bad. We sent pictures and talked about who we were dating and all that jazz. We could talk for hours everyday and never run out of things to say. I, being the woman and having experienced failed connections, realized that this was rare. But he always went out of his way to minimize my significance to him.

We ended up having a huge fight one day and eventually he rejected me. After some time we tried to rebuild our friendship but it just turned into him bragging about the things he was doing with his current girlfriend, certain things he knows I would've liked or things he knew I couldn't do. I told him we should stop talking about our partners and he pressed on. My boyfriend and I got serious so I stopped sharing things with him but he went on with sharing his life in graphic detail. In the past week alone he told me a couple of times that he wanted to hook up with me even though We're both seriously seeing other people. I kept brushing him off then one day I asked him if he had any feelings for me and he abruptly brushed me off saying he has a girlfriend. I felt like he teased me just to embarrass me with this response and reject me again. After that he blocked me. I was livid. So I ended up messaging his girlfriend and telling her all the things he told me about their sex life and I even sent her naked pictures he had sent me. I feel like it's worse than cheating what he did, and she deserves to know. Of course my motive was revenge but I think he had it coming. He's a fuckboy.

The sad thing is, I don't think he cheated but physically cheated, but he's still a bad guy.

So me and this guy are friends and part of the same friend group. But our friendship started complicated because when we first really started talking we were on a weekend trip and there was drinking involved and basically drunk Kenya initiated it but for the whole weekend long we cuddled and made out and basically we're together. As time past we became good friends and every once and a while he's bring up that weekend and say how fun it was and how great of a time it was. And bring up little details like our seven minutes and heaven. Now when that happened it was January nothing really happened again till July when we were having a bonfire at my friends house. He was super flirty all night and he tolde to come sit beside him. He roasted a marshmallow for me , put his hat on my head , offered me his sweater the whole shebang. He also complained that I didn't text him enough. When he never bothered to text me once first... Longer through the night my friends dared us to kiss and we did and it was great. But the next day again seemed like we were back to the start. However after this we started texting quit regularly for a while. Then came to weeks ago when I was up in the city where he goes to school with my friend. We were at a bar about 20 minutes from his school. There's was some creep hitting on me all night and would but his arm around me and stuff. So I jokingly texted him and asked for help. He asked what was wrong I told him and he asked where I was and what the address wass. my friend told him as I had been drinking and half an hour later he actually showed up! And helped me get away from the guy. We ended up walking back into town and instead of going back to his dorm he ended up coming back with is. We ended up sharing a bed and we cuddled and held hands, we didn't kiss but he rubbed my back and intertwined our legs and cute shit. The problem is we never talk about feelings EVER and when my friend asked his best friend I'd he like me he said he didn't know because he never talked to him about feelings but he did know that the boy had said he liked getting affection from me... So what does that mean? Is he using me or is there a chance he's to shy to admit anything?

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We lived together before we even dated because we stayed at my uncle's house for school. He is my aunt in law brother so we are not related by blood -.-
I used to be crazy about him. I loved him so much to the point that I want to be with him all the time. I used to feel butterfly whenever he was around. We fought a lot before but it did not affect our relationship or my feelings for him. Just about two months ago, his parents came to the states and they stayed here with us. We fought a couple times because he said I did not try to impress his parents and that I don't wake up early to cook or at least cook after work. I told him that I work six days a week and I love to sleep at least 8-9 hours every night and I'm not a morning person. I told him I can eat some where else before I go home so he doesn't have to feel like his mother have to cook for me, but he didn't want to. Normally, I work from 10 am to 8 pm but with all the side works, I can't go home till 8:30 and when I get home it would be 8:45 or 9pm. I told him I can try to cook after work but my uncle and aunt always talk crap and make fun of me like "wow you actually cook today, so its gonna snow tomorrow." I told him I don't like it at all.
Its not because I'm lazy. I wash dishes and clean afterwards.
My boyfriend was born in Viet Nam and he's really conservative. He expects his future wife to cook and clean for him. I told him that i expect both of us sharing the work and he said thats fine, but he still expects it. He doesn't like it when I go to the bar or hang out with my girlfriends who date and have sex with many guys. He doesn't want me to wear belly ring or nose ring. Other than that he is a really sweet, nice, affectionate boyfriend. He loves me a lot
But recently, I felt like I don't love him as before. I felt like I lied to him when I said I love you. But I can't leave him. What happened to me? What should I do? I love him though