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It was a perfect 2 year relationship, however I went to Uni & he wanted to join the marines & we agreed splitting up might be best. He was contacting me for a month and asked to meet me, we confessed we both still had feelings but he felt we couldn't be together so began a 'friends with benefits' type relationship, I confessed I had been on a date when we split, & my ex said he literally felt cheated on & had lost trust in me despite the fact we weren't together at the time.
I confessed I wanted more than this, so he explained that he still had feelings & hated the thought of me with anyone else, but that he felt the love had faded however stated it would be perfect in 5 years time. he again explained he needs to be on his own whilst joining the marines, which I completely understood.
I explained how this felt too much like a relationship so he made it clear we weren't back together & therefore began liking girls pictures 'for a confidence boost' & brought up the subject of being able to talk to other people however in now way meet up with them.
We were at mine where I received a phone call off an old male friend, my ex overheard my male friend ask if I was still with my ex which I replied 'no', I could see my ex was hurt but he simply said that 'the phone call was just shit'
The next day I was going out with some friends in town & uploaded a picture of myself onto Facebook in a dress which showed my cleavage which got a lot of male attention on likes and comments, then whilst drunk I unawarely deleted my ex off Facebook.
I confronted him (thinking he had deleted me) & he said that I looked like a cheap desperate attention seeking f'in slag in the picture i uploaded and wanted nothing to do with me. I asked him to meet but he said he didn't think he wanted to. 2 days later I realised I had deleted him so apologised, which lead him to apologise also, then we left it there. I'm 2 weeks into no contact. Why is he so hurt but doesn't love me? Do I fight for him?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months. Before then, I went through a really bad break up with my ex. I tried to be friends with him or at least be on good terms before my boyfriend and I started. When David (boyfriend) and I started dating, I was still talking to my ex, not romantically but as friends. I admit I did have some feelings but I did not want to date him, those feelings weren't romantic. I admitted to those feelings to David and he left me. While we were on break, he tried to make me jealous by hanging around this new girl at our school who happened to be friends with all of his friends. We get back together, soon after I get news that I'm moving 7 hours away, we stay together. I get insecure about him sitting with his friends because of that girl. Soon, my doctor finds a large tumor, it might be cancer. I have surgery. Fast forward to April, I give my FB password to him, he accuses me of cheating. I don't cheat. He says that using emoticons is cheating, I only use emoticons when the conversation is meaningless and I'm not sure what to say. He says I'm lying. A guy says he misses talking to me and being nice, I say that I miss talking to him too, I don't mean it but I know he won't bother me again. Everyone else, were guys I was friends with years before David and I started. Week later, I drive 7 hours to go to his prom. Everything is great after prom. Weeks later he says he showed my messages to girls at his school and they all "confirm" that I was flirting, he says he can't get over that and that I didn't love hit, and he asks for a break. During break, we still talk and call each other. I showered him with love and affection. The other day he said he can't do this, that he can't trust me, and I get hysterical. After hours of us crying and me asking why, he takes back what he said and we're together again. Next day, he says this was a mistake, repeat of the night before. We're together again. He says he's scared about us not working out.