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I like this guy and i want to tell him how i feel, but i am confused but how he feels. plus i don't want to scary him way when i say it. We don't go to the same school anymore
-He stares at me in a dreamy way.
Like this one time at presentation evening. I looked on the other side of the room and saw him standing there staring at me, but he was smiling with his mum. His mum looked annoyed.
-Ends up in the same place i am
-He glances often at me and looks away when i notice.
-His always smiling around me.
-He walks behind me a lot
-He seems nervous around me.
-He copies my moves and wears things the same way.
There was this one time when we were on a bus he sat alone instead of sitting with his friends.
-He at my shirt that was kind of see through, but i didn't know the bra i was wearing was seen through (LOLz) he kept coming, closer to me, like he was trying to get a better view and was smiling. There was another time similar to that we were at the beach (with my year grade) and i just changed back to my clothes. i went to sit down on the boat, my back was facing the crowd so i couldn't see behind me. (but i could feel and smell) i felt a presence come and the closer it got i could smell links. i turned my head a bit and i saw he was sitting behind me and his back was facing me.
-He looked hurt when i hugged my male friend. I wasn't trying to hurt him but it just felt like i did cause he stormed away.
-He called me on a 'private number' and got his sister to talk to me, (i know how his sister sounds like i've talked to her before.) I never gave my number to him.
But then their are signs that confuses me that he doesn't like me or maybe i am just over thinking this all.
-He tried to talk to me. i talked to him once sounded like a b***h but i didn't mean to.
- I added him once on social media, but he didn't added me and my best friend back, but then other friends that i never talk to. i don't get him

I met someone on the internet, on a writing site. Everyone on the site is anonymous.
When we started talking I told them that I only do superficial conversation and I won't share any of my personal info or life with them. They accepted that. However, they have told me their name and life story.
After two years they pressed and pressed me for information. I made things up. I didn't care if it was true or not because I figured I was never going to see them, so whatever. Shortly after I fed them all this they tried finding me on facebook and other social media. When they thought they had found me they blew up the writing site and people on my friends list with a link to the FB profile they thought was me based on info they gathered over time.
People on the writing site started adding the person from FB and harassing them and harassing me on the writing site. Saying things like "OMG that who you are?" and other things.
Long story short I have to leave the writing site due to spammers. Had that really been MY facebook account she found then I would have had my identity blow up...

It's been 5 years and she still talks to me here and there. I made a promise not to lie to her. Instead if she asks me a question I either give her an answer or state I don't want to answer.
Now she is saying that I need to at least share my name with her if we actually friends.

Frankly I don't even want to give her that.. I am afraid she will blow up my identity for real.. what do I do?