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The question says it all why is it the opposite sex of the respective skin colour not considered attractive. Hell I even met a bisexual woman who is attracted to dark skinned men but when it comes to women she wants them pale. Even when they are undesirable pale men and dark skinned don't find each other attractive.
So the notion of opposites attracts only works on pale women and dark skinned women

Ok I know people can't control as to what or who they find attractive I'm not going to attack anyone who gives an honest opinion.

But if you feel the above question is true and can't be changed how can one overcome such situation and keep his/her confidence intact especially pale men (even when dark skin is considered unattractive on a woman , remember they are woman and woman have an easier time of finding a man )

So in the end do you agree
For men - darker the man the better looking he is

For women - paler the woman the better looking she is

So I have been friends with this guy for quite a bit. But I met him in the fall... and then came winter. And though Florida is usually hot, fall and winter aren't that hot as long as you're not doing much physical activity outside.

I already quite liked this guy. He was kind, sensitive, not afraid to be himself, funny, excellent at chorus and theater class, etc. One of my closest male friends overall. He was also quite attractive. Blonde, fair skinned, and slightly more feminine looking than most guys. He actually looks a bit "pretty". But still looks like a guy overall. A nice balance.

But thing is, I'm bisexual, and the legs are my favorite body part, on both men and women. And this guy... once spring came along, he would now wear nothing but shorts. And not long ones either, but a hand above the knee to mid-thigh, depending on how hot the day overall was.

And I couldn't help but want to glance at his legs... they were pale as hell, but pale looks good on him. He had very minimal leg hair, it was almost like he shaved, but if you looked closely, you cold see copious very small light hairs. His legs were in excellent shape. Not super burly or thick, but you can tell he takes care of himself and works out often. They looked a bit feminine, but I like feminine guys.

Daily, I couldn't help but throw in a quick glance every time we started up a conversation. Till one day, he eventually caught on, smiled sweetly, and said. "I see you've started taken notice of my legs ever since I began wearing shorts, hm? Well good, cuz I jog and walk around a heck of a lot, and am quite proud of my work. Plus, my legs are already super smooth without needing to shave them." And I just turned real red, but we both laughed it off.

I don't know if it's just me, but ever since that incident... he's been nicer than usual... almost like he's into me.

However, though I'm attracted to feminine men, I'm attracted to actual women MUCH more... but I'm kind of into him, too...