Search Results: ready for commitment

He isn't ready for commitment. Is my only option to let him go?

My ex and I have been in each others lives for over a year now gradually building a strong foundation. He has had one girlfriend before me and believes he needs to date a larger pool of women casually (3 months) before...

Hsjdif76817246

Xper 4 Age: 36

Starting relationship dilemma?

Hello all, So I will try to do this short. So 6 months ago I broke up with my ex-girlfriend for almost one year. After three months I felt ready to start dating again. I dated many girls but from the start I got hooked...

aillam

Xper 5 Age: 38

Girlfriend wants to get engaged but I'm not ready?

My girlfriend of 3 years is talking about getting engaged but I am not ready yet. I love her to death but just not ready for that kind of final commitment. What should I do/say?

Anonymous

(25-29)

LONG POST BUT I NEED HELP- Part 2, Am I really in the friend zone?

START OF PART 2... Conversation 1: guy: "... I really think you're great but I would be lying if I said I was ready for my next chapter right now even tho I really enjoy your presence in my life. I can guarantee...

vfole

Xper 4 Age: 29

Hung up on "ex", making a fool of myself, so I've decided to just lay all my feelings out there so I can move on/not expecting anything... advice?

background: I'm very guarded/commitment-phobic & had never been in a relationship (I'm 22) & met this guy, we were connected immediately. I kept him at a sexual level but he pushed for more commitment, I gave it a chance...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I respond?

I broke up with this guy a couple weeks ago after we had been dating for about 4 months and seemed to be going nowhere. I basically said that the relationship was really confusing for me and that I wanted something with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I a waste of time?

My girlfriend and I have been dating over a year. We live about an hour away from each other. She asked if I’m committed to her. I said I don't know cause it was a spur of the moment question and I had to give her an...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Should I give up?

I was kind of dating this guy until he said he didn't want commitment because of things he had gone through with his ex of several years very recently, he said he wasn't ready etc and wanted to stay friends and he said it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why does my ex want to be friends? (LENGTHY)?

So I was dating this girl for the past 4 years and everything was great until out of the blue she said that "She needed space." I kinda overreacted because I tend to do that about things I care about that take a huge left...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My Ex is trying to be my friend?

TewMad

Xper 4 Age: 32

Guy's Behavior

Is a guy ever really into someone but isn't ready for commitment?

For example, let's say the guy is 25, built a friendship with a girl which eventually turned into flirtation and the guy told the girl he isn't ready for relationship in his life from first dates but didn't try to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

For example, let's say the guy is 25, built a friendship with a girl which eventually turned into flirtation and the guy told the girl he isn't ready for relationship in his life from

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If a guy is hard to get out of his shell is it just because he has not found the woman he cares enough about to let go with?

I have known this guy for years as friends although we have kind of dated we usually were nkt on the same page at the same time. Granted I was never ready for a relationship even if he did at times in the past but I...

LoveJesusLoveGod

Xper 5 Age: 46

I love him but I don't like him am I a hypocrite?

I've been seeing this guy we've been on and off for 4 years for the simple fact that we both weren't ready for commitment. Now we are and we both want the same things (a family etc) I can't get over the character he has...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to let go someone you love who you are not sure loves you back?

There's someone I care for dearly , but not sure how he feels about me. He never expressed himself nor opened up to me when it came to his feelings. He went aloof July 12th and I never heard from him again. I tried...

cthomas1243

Xper 5 Age: 37

I keep breaking up with my boyfriend, but he keeps getting me to take him back?

So. I love my boyfriend. He treats me like an absolute princess. He loves me. He's kind. He's thoughtful. He cares so so so much. He still puts me in my place. The sex is amazing. But we just started university. I know...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Twenty-One Tips For Successful Online Dating

I am 62 years old. I have used online dating sites three times in my life: 2007-2008, 2015, and 2017. I am not looking for hookups, FWB’s, casual sex, ONS's, etc. I want to find a woman for a long term relationship 1. who...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

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6 Things You Should NOT Discuss on a First Date

We all have ideas and opinions that are near and dear to our hearts, and naturally it is desired to find a long-term partner who is on par or accepts our beliefs. However, some things are best left unsaid on FIRST dates...

Ozanne

Editor Age: 51

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Can she truly not be ready for a realationship?

This one girl shows signs of liking me and people have thought we were dating at one point. Sometimes when I walk past her she will wistle, seem happy to see me, will try to get close to me when possible. She will try and...

Anonymous

(36-45)