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To clarify, I mean they are still with their spouse, not separated. I'm married, but guys still hit on me when I'm out without my husband. Most of them are respectful when I tell them I'm married and back off, but quite a few still keep trying to get me to sleep with them. They're like "Come on, you know you want to," "it's just one night," and "he'll never find out." Maybe I'm being naive, but I used to think only scumbags seduced married women, but a few of these guys who tried to seduce me after I told them I was married seemed like really nice guys, and when I was talking to them (this is at parties, events, ect) I was just being friendly and not trying to flirt. I'm always taken by surprise when they suddenly try to kiss me and get me in bed. What do you think, is it okay to actively try to get someone who is married to have sex with you, even if it's just a one-night stand? Why or why not?

For me it happens even if I wear a belt, and now it happened at a new workplace where a certain guy saw it a couple of times. He is now telling people that I did this on purpose to tease him and seduce him. It's incredibly frustrating since it's not true, but everyone seems to have believed it and they are making jokes behind my back, giving me bad vibes. I've started wearing higher waisted trousers and longer sweatshirts, but I feel this is ridiculous and I should not feel self conscious to such degree since it was not deliberate. I wonder how many other men think it's for their benefit