Search Results: talking to shy girls

This girl I been talking to for about 3 weeks. Some time she take long time to respond. Like past 10 hours+ mark. Someday she respond quickly sometime doesn’t. So couple days ago I ask her out on a date and she available the next after 5pm. So I was like okay I’m excited to see you. She arrive on time ( she live an hour away from me), on a dot! Dress nice and happy to see me. So we go get some boba tea. And we went on Long drive just to talk. She share her drink with me 5min after we got into the car. We both little shy at first but night went on we got comfortable and we both have really great time talking each other and enjoy each other company. Say we laugh like 90% of the time!. As I get comfortable I start asking if her hand is cold so I hold her hand, and she doesn’t seem to be bother, so we lock hand. After couple mins I let go cuz is getting sweat! And I did that couple of time and doesn’t seem to mind. Seem pretty happy and smiling about it. So I start moving in to her personal space and she didn’t care either. And she hold eye contact with me when I talk to her, and I’m the one who break the eye contact, look at her again and she still look at me. Her eyes is beautiful🔥. I did playful touch her lot but she doesn’t seem to mind. At the end of the date i playful said oh so we going to kiss? And she said with playful tone: I don’t have gum, now u make me overthink, and you got let it happen naturally u can just say it like that. So she hug me and kiss me on the cheek instead. And said I got wait for next time! And she said it again when we went for another hug. So next day I follow up with her. Say I enjoy our date and she enjoy it aswell! So I text her the only thing bother is no kiss, and she said don’t complain or you won’t get any. So I just laughs it off cuz is was funny. Next day she went back to long responding. What do you guys think is she actually into me or she just playing game or is she giving me hella test right now?

Now it's been 2 years
Now whenever we had an argument she is the who want to avoid this argument, not resolving any problems plus avoiding it, we don't have any sex life because she don't like it and I can't even discussion about sex life she thinks that it's cheap to talk about.
She anly wants to talk about it after marriage. That's insane
Nowadays she don't even bother to Call me, whenever I call she don't pick up, not even response on it, and if I discuss it she says I'm talking to u right now what's the problem. Now y you wanna fight?
Like she always blame me for every thing. Even it's not my fault. She don't appreciate me at all she always decided what I wear. And of I ask to to wear my favourite dress she say it my dressing sense is not that good so I should remain silent.
Whenever I ask where is she she says y I wanna now?
And says that if im not asking y should U ask that where she is?
Some time I feel she is selfish.
And I'm trapped
She also says she don't want any child. Because she is the one who is child.

I'm fed up, and confused.

Please 🙏 help...

1 day an unknown girl texted me on social media, and slowly and gradually we started conversation and 2 month of conversation.
I started dating a girl, it's been 2 years now. 1st year straight she was good, share our lives, our views our opinions, we express each other, i actually enjoyed our company. But 1 day at midnight, we were having a conversation after few minutes she said she wanna sleep. I said ok. I also wanna sleep. But after 10 minutes i was still awake so I checked my watsapp to message her, what I saw that she is already online, and I watched her for 5 minutes then I massaged her, after that she immediately got offline, without replying then next morning I tried to discuss that thing with her about last night, she said she don't know how she was online because she was sleeping so I asked her how it is possible to be sleeping and been online at the same time, she just said I don't know and don't wanna talk about it because it's ruining her mood. And I was like don't want to know that how here phone's watsapp app is ON. And i forget about that and started talking to her as before. Now after 2 days she randomly said that it's her bother who was online with her phone. Now point is she already confirmed me that her phone is locked all the time. How come her bother can do that?
The we had a fight on that then we stopped talking for around 6 months, in between she cried a lot and tried to convince me that it wasn't her at that time and she don't know how that happened.

After 6 month my parents told me that they were they were looking a girl for me for a marriage and showed me a pic and I recognised her it's her, so I asked her about that so now she started telling me that she already was having a conversation with my family and that's y she texted me. and she likes me and she wants to marry me.

I was bit confused but a also like her so we said yes for marriage.

All was good then I slowly started understanding that she is Little dominant and same as me.

Part 2