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He dumped me cause he's in college I'm in high school, so he thinks it couldn't work out. He says he still has feelings for me and loves me. Said we could still talk. We were friends for one or two months, then he said he wanted a break, then it changed to "we shouldn't talk or hang anymore." We hung out 2 weeks ago and he cuddled with me and it went well. There's no other girl, I know that. He said its over. I started messaging him today and he said "just leave me for fucks sake" and was being kinda mean. I then went out with my sister and brother in law. When I came back home I found lots of messages and missed calls from him, saying "(my name)?" "Please I'm sorry" and "I didn't want to be mean to you." Things like that. He said he loved me a lot. He said he'd always love me twice after breaking up, and he meant it in a nonplatonic way.

This morning i checked my bf's fb and i saw that he's recently friends with this girl overseas
Im not sure if he added her or she added him
Usually his fb friends contains people that he knows
So i called him straight away and said "are u cheating? Do u have another girl?"
And then he said "what? No.. why?"
And i replied "coz i think u added a girl on fb"
And he said "which girl? I didn't add any girl. I have girls on my fb but i didn't add any girl?"
Then i said "are u sure u dont have any other girl?"
And he said "omg.. seriously babe.. look i dont have any other girl. If i did, i wouldn't be with you. I would dump you. I would be having sex with her and not with you.. sorry to say that but you made me say it.. and i would be spending time with her instead of you.. i would be calling her everyday instead of you.. if you are still doubting, you can check my messages, facebook messenger, evrything on my phone.. you know all my passwords to my phone and laptop. Geez"
Do u think what my boyfriend is saying is legit?
Im 23 and he's 28
We have been together 1 year and 2 months
My ex cheated on me and i know i still have trust issues but that whole facebook thing with him got me suss so i confronted him
Or am i just being a paranoid bitch?

So obviously there's a story behind this,
My mother is an alcoholic and drug addict, she has 2 other children and we all have different dad's, one is older then me and has asbergers and the other is younger then me and has fetal alcohol effects.

My dad has had full custody of me since i was around 6 but i was still allowed to see and stay at my mothers on every 2nd weekend and she has tried to give up alcohol and drugs multiple time but it never worked out, once i found her over dosed barley breathing, she got mad at me for calling an ambulance. After awhile she got with a man who she had a child. He raped and sexually abused me repeatedly for around 6 years. He went to jail for the assault and when he got out she got back with him even though it was against his bail conditions, he sent her money, supplied her with drugs and alcohol. Due to her relationship with him my younger brother got taken off her and she had to get sober and ditch this man to get him back, which she refused to. I went back to the police and told them about the rape, they weren't surprized because he'd done it before and he went back to court. She told me that she had dumped him and was trying to get better.

I found out a few month's later she was back with him and was seeing him almost every weekend, she had his spare house key and was messaging him a lot. I got angry and threw his key out and she kicked me out of her house so i told her i didn't want to see her again. This was 6 month's ago, not pnce has she tried to apologize or talk to me. Should i suck it up and forgive her or just keep things how they are?

This guy and I had been dating exclusively for little over a month. The first time we had sex was one week ago and he called me by his ex's name. He says he only did that because ever since he broke up with her he hadn't reached that level of physical and emotional intimacy with anyone else. Ok fair enough, I'm not mad anymore, things are back to normal.

2 days later though he starts acting weird. Stops asking to meet up, stops trying to make conversation, at this point I'm the only one making an effort. If I didn't text him he would spend the entire day without talking to me.

Last night I told him I wasn't happy about that and he flat out ignored me. We attended the same party, I'm pretty positive he saw me there multiple times and pretended he didn't know me. I dumped him via text this morning.