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I didn't include a "I can't decide" or "other" option because I really wanted these two options alone battling it out.

You may think this is entirely up to him, but what do you personally think is the best option here? Men, what would you do in this situation? Do the four kids need a step parent? Should he focus more on feeding and raising four kids, rather than paying for dates and giving attention to someone else? Losing custody of the kids, getting back with his ex, or putting the kids up for adoption isn't an option.

I just answered this question asked by @PrettyKitty31 about how much you're willing to pay for a pet and so many people answered that they would just adopt a pet from an animal shelter instead.
Is it free in your country?
In my country, the minimum fee for adoption is 500-600 USD for a dog or cat, so the answers didn't make sense to me.

i was thinking how men have no decisions when it comes to abortion, and yet they are often required to pay child support. Should men be able to opt out of a pregnancy situation by either supporting abortion / adoption and avoiding child support? Or do you think women should be able to make all the decisions and still expect men to pay child support?

if a women wants to abort a baby or put it up for adoption, should a man have any say in the matter?

it does not seem fair to me to give women all the choices while requiring all the men to bear the responsibility of those choices.

what do you think?

My boyfriend and I are having this talk rn on the phone. I would keep it because its not the babys fault. However i do worry the baby would come out with the same face as my attacker. But i’d try to get over that. My boyfriend honestly shocked me with how diff our opinions are. He said he’d want me to give it up for adoption. Im sorry but i just can't see myself “getting rid of” my baby (adoption/abortion). And why would i go through the pain of childbirth just to give my baby up. So i told him if he doesn't want to father “someone elses child” (which is also half of me) then he could leave. Then he changes it and says “i’d father someone elses child, just not the child who resulted from rape.” Wow. Im sure most of you agree with him but i just can't. Also, i said “healthy” because its a little more understandable if somebody wanted to not have a baby that the Doc told them would be born with some type of disease that could blind the child or cause the child to be infected for life. Because then that child has to live a life in hell :(