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I met this guy on a dating site a full year ago. We never had sex and we went on a total of two dates.
(The second date, I went to his place and we smoked weed. I had an edible that ended up being too strong for me and I actually blacked out and had a few panic attacks.
As embarrassing as that was, believe it or not, he was still into me and wanted to see me again.)

Shortly after that, I left the state for my own personal reasons (this had been decided before meeting him), and he made a point to keep in touch with me. I am moving back now and he still texts me and apparently hasn't really been with anyone else (so he says). I would have expected him to move on or start dating someone else and forget all about me but he hasn't.

But what leads me to believe that he just wants me for sex is that, during the span of my absence, the only reason he would text me is to tell me he was thinking about me sexually. There was one time we talked (texted) about politics but it was short-lived because I got distracted. This is pretty much the only time I can remember him being interested in talking about something other than sex. I have asked him about work but he has very little interest in talking about himself. He also never asks about what I'm doing with my life or shows much interest. Mind you, I usually don't text him first, and I know that texting is not a good indicator of human interpersonal interaction, but we've never talked on the phone before due to the casualty of our previous encounters so we never established calling as a precedent. Now he's been texting me asking when I'll be back.

Do you think he has waited all this time for me just to have sex with me? He is a confident guy and probably wouldn't have to try too terribly hard to get another woman. I just can't imagine a guy waiting on a woman for a year whom he had only gone on two dates with, just to have sex with her.

I had a new relationship to a foreign european man for two weeks now. He is handsome , good body and charming.

I have been fool twice before by Guys who just used me for sex by my own race through their manipulation ( like only until 3 dates) and now I decided to have a relationship with a foreign man.

On our first date , it was undeniably that we are attracted to each other and he was inviting me to his house but I refused first.

On our second date, He went with me in my staycation in a resort hotel. I was attracted to him and we mutually agreed to have sex together and also relationship. But I saw girls chatting him but I don’t mind them

On our third date , we fought because he was mad why I am still in online dating site and I cannot date in valentines because of work. He blocked me and I immediately went into his house and brought him a cake. He was not in house that time and went outside to buy food with his motorbike. It was raining that time and so he return to his house to meet me and he was really wet and worried. He then kissed me and hugged me. And something again happened to us. But still I saw girls chatting him which he denied that are only friends

On our fourth date, we are planning to date together outside. But he is asking a favor from me. He wants to borrow 15,000 for his house rent.

He no longer have money and also I think he was not lying because all his ATM accounts are already empty or blocked when we tried to withdraw a money on a bank.

He is an unfortunate foreigner whose money were spent for nothing. I don’t know if I should help him. I already paid 6000 for his health insurance

I am afraid to make a mistake again , he was already my third sex and I want to make our relationship work. I want only to give myself to him and no more to anyone.

Should I lend him money? What should I do?

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So this guy and I started talking around 8 months back. After meeting for the first time, he used to text me a lot and kept asking me to meet again. Also, he lives an hour away from my place so whenever we met we always chose a place that was close to me and he would drive till there for around 40 minutes amd then drop me home in the end. So on the second date we told we like each other. And in the car we made out and shit while he was dropping me home. After that he was pursuing me still and used to initiate conversation everytime and kept asking me to meet, but I was feeling a bit odd cause we made out when we weren't even dating. Anyway we finally met for the third time after 2 months. But on the third date everything was perfect he kept saying I was looking nice and all. He also paid the bill. He never let me pay in all the 3 dates. But then we got too drunk that night and while he was dropping, we parked the car somewhere and started making out and then decided to have sex cause he had condoms But since I'm a virgin I'm a bit tight so we couldn't do it. And after that he got sad but I was like it doesn't matter. he texted me a few times after that. But after a while he kind of stopped talking. Then he texted after 20 days and I didn't open his text for 2 days on purpose cause I was mad at him. He had written "Hey, free to talk?". when I replied he was like "just wanted to ask what headspace you're in and everything". I didn't reply to that cause I didn't know what to say. But after 2 weeks I texted him and he was like "I wanted to talk to you about it tbh" and then I ignored him for a bit to act cool about it and I said "what's up" and he still hasn't opened my message. He didn't even wish me on my bday even though I had told him about it a few days before. So right now I'm thinking if I messed up or he just never really cared about me and whether I should move on or not.

I have met some guys online
And after first date, they want to see me again

I met my first boyfriend on a dating app
And I was with him for 6 months

Then I went back online dating app after breakup
And then I met my second boyfriend
And I was with him for over 2 years

And now im single again
And so im back on the app again
I've been on dates
And most are interested in dating me/saying im attractive

But in real life, some guys stare at me but they never approach me - asking for my number etc
That is why i always use online dating apps to find a man

Im so frustrated
I want to find someone in the real world 😏

Does this mean Im not attractive?

I went out with this cute guy few nights ago
He seems interested
Asking questions about me
Listening to what I say
Etc

And we have been messaging each other everyday till today

Today he asked me
"I dont know if im being too forward with this but I would love for you to come over this weekend"

Wtf?
For a second date?
Does this mean he just wants to hook up?