Search Results: being too mature in a relationship

He broke up with me suddenly. Did I go wrong anywhere? Should I have not started it in the first place?

I dated this dude who was younger than me 7 years I'm 32. I was attracted to him but also knew that he didn't like the same movies with me and we didn't click at the same level like I did with my exes. He was attracted...

Oldish

Xper 6 Age: 47

Confused about what happened and if we're broken up

Hey guys, Ill try to keep this short. I have been dating this girl almost 3 months. Its a long distance relationship now. Well the first two months everything was great and I didn't know it, but she was on...

derkyboy1986

Xper 4 Age: 39

How can I stop being insecure about my height?

Ok I'm gonna try and say this without sounding big headed, or like a woman lol. I'm very smart , talented, funny, sweet (I'm not Mr Nice Guy or anything though), romantic when given the chance. All my girl friends say I...

Dylan1989

Xper 3 Age: 37

Guy's Behavior

GUYS! What are his intentions (since we just met)? is he interested?

So, for new years eve weekend, a small group of some friends and I went out of town to celebrate new years eve. me and one of those guys became instantly attracted towards each other and clicked pretty well, it being the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

The more you love a girl, the more she'll love you?

I don't have a girlfriend, but I know all about how girls apparently get bored with nice guys or they're too "predictable" or whatever and that's the downfall of a good guy... They're "not exciting enough." Yet, I have...

drummerdude25

Master Age: 35

Break Up & Divorce

When you both agree that as a last resort, a break seems the only way to save the relationship?

Me and my girlfriend of 4 years came to the decision the other day that a break to find ourselves is really the only way there is a chance of the relationship making it and we would rather not but it seems this is the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does she like me, hate me, or not care one way or the other?

She’s black, I’m white. We’re opposites in nearly every other way as well. We’ve worked closely together in a small company together for 4 years. From the first time I saw her I was attracted to her and knew I would...

carlson_ned

Xper 3 Age: 40

Constant dreams of the same person...How do I stop them?!

I had a complicated "relationship" with this guy throughout high school. We were really close at first, then didn't talk for around a year because I got extremely annoyed with him. During that time he kept begging for my...

love2sing4eva

Xper 6 Age: 34

What would you think about a 19-20 year old girl on a dating website like eharmony? please help me

Because I am currently a sophomore in college, and I have yet to be in a serious relationship. I have been with plenty of guys, but for one reason or another, they just don't work out. All the guys I cared about ended up...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I compatible with my boyfriend? Or should I just keep on trying to change myself?

I know I have a lot of flaws, such as being blur (confused easily, don't really understand things fast) at certain times, putting myself down and don't speak up my thoughts at the moment that is happening. He really...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does she want me back?

I dated this girl for like 7 months my senior year of high-school and we got pretty serious. I broke up with her though because I was pretty immature. Anyway, after being apart for like 3-4 months we finally talked again...

onyxsky2012

Xper 5 Age: 36

Should I ask her to be my girlfriend or just leave things "as is"?

I started dating a young girl I met on POF. She's 20 and I'm in my late 20s. She's new to the area and wanted to meet guys to show her around. She's book smart, sweet and sexy (used to model). She laughs at all my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Do I risk my new friendship with my ex?

Background: Our relationship was exciting, loving and stable. We fell in love quickly and I had some of the best months of my life together. After a few rocky weeks apart, she had some major decisions to make in her life...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My girlfriend puts everyone before me, time to leave?

So me and my girlfriend have been together for 2.5 years now. We met when we were 18. I am 22 now. Anyways I will admit I was a bit immature at that age. I liked her, but I was scared of being in a relationship because of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

What will it take to wake females up?

Now, before I begin, you'll notice my attitude toward this topic will seem bitter and one-sided. I apologize to those who will be offended by this, but I've posted here, in order to gather data quickly. To start, I'm...

EyeZen

Xper 5 Age: 36

Does my ex boyfriend really love me, or does he just want to get in my pants?

my ex boyfriend and I have a bit of a history. we met when we were like 14 or 15 (I'm 20 now, for context), and we didn't exactly hit it off. he fell in love with me almost immediately, but I was practically repulsed by...

Anonymous

(30-35)

18 year boy, will he come back around (2 year relationship)?

i was with this guy for 2 years. i had to move to another state, that's why we broke up. hes 18. he's got me a diamond necklace. we were each others first love and high school sweethearts. he cried like 5 times when...

Anonymous

(30-35)