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Approximately six months ago, a guy, for whatever reason via Facebook took an interest in me, and after finding out who he was, I welcomed him as my friend. Well, shortly after, he proceeded persistently with pursuing me, and trying to talk to me. At first, I wasn't at the least bit interested, as I did not know him at all, but given the current state I was in, I decided to be open-minded, and give this guy a shot, for all time's sake. Well, he seemed alright, I suppose, but he did lie about his age, and he did pressure me into sending him numerous photos of myself, and I innocently enough, took a chance, and sent him one that was decent, but then he wanted more and more, and again, I was uncomfortable as I did not know him well enough for that...Therefore, I very politely told him that I was not confident that this was working out for the best, so I felt we needed to perhaps, go our separate ways? Months passed by, and he contacted me again, wanting to talk to me via the telephone, and after awhile, I decided to give him another chance, and so I accepted, and for about two weeks we spoke via the telephone, and he seemed to be what I thought was a great guy, and he asked me out, and I said sure, but there were some suspicions, before I close my story. He very frequently, disclosed to me how in-confident and low his self-esteem was, and how he repeatedly claimed that beautiful women would approach him all the time, but that he was unsure to approach them, intimidated, and afraid of trusting them for fear of getting hurt, and so my heart sincerely went out to him, to encourage, console, and lift him up, and help him all together naturally, and so more information that I probably shouldn't have disclosed so prematurely was disclosed when asked or volunteered. The most important thing that I shared with him after he asked me, was that I am a virgin, and waiting for the right guy. I normally wouldn't have shared that so soon with a guy, but I did, and I know it was a mistake. My point is, was he using his sad stories to get me in bed, especially after he discovered I was a virgin or was he good guy? by the way, I finally met him in person on my birthday yesterday, well before our scheduled date or what would have been our date this Friday night, and he kissed me four times passionately, and I didn't feel any sparks or specialness there at all. Mind you it was my very first kiss ever, and it wasn't an awful kiss, but unless I'm crazy, and I am certainly not a lesbian, shouldn't a kiss feel a certain way, especially If you're supposed to be into the guy? I realized that I was not into him at all, and I told him politely and respectfully over the phone, that there wasn't any chemistry there for me, and that I feel we would be better off as friends, and I meant that, because there wasn't any chemistry there, it was just very awkward, and if you're into somebody it should not be, right? Did I make the right decision? Was I wrong for turning him down for our date?

okay the first guy is nice, experienced in bed, is 17 and interested in me but has other options and told me so. he literally said "...by the way, you know I won't be single forever right? someone might beat asking me out before you, just saying." he said this knowing I've been going through a rough time and don't want to dive into a relationship. he's bright, mysterious and wants to just take the time to get to know me, till tonight when he said this, I'm not sure what he wants any more. I asked him if I actually meant something to him or just another option to date and he said I mean something to him but there are other people he thinks that are hot. he's been perfect up till this point and I was actually about to say I wanted to start a relationship with him but now I am wary because of what he has said. (ive known him for 2 years but haven't really started talking till about a month ago)

the next guy is sweet, innocent virgin (doesnt get most of my perverted jokes), a month older than me, never had a girlfriend, trustworthy and I've known him since middle school and would hang out in a group of 4 people and sometimes there were more that came by but mainly 4. I'm not sure if he is interested in me but I used to like him in middle school too and tonight after the way guy #1 acted, I was fed up and hung out with guy #2 because our group hasn't hung out in a long time. I started to like him again and was flirting a bit. we all had a nice timeand he accidently touched my b**b and wouldn't stop apologizing ALL night. while we were driving to his house to drop him off, I was leaning my head on his shoulder partly because I was tired and the day at the mall was exausting. then as the car stopped, I got out of the car to let him out and as we hugged goodbye I kissed the base of his neck discreetly so our friend's mom wouldn't notice even though he definately did. he didn't jump back or anything, just kind of froze for a second. then we hugged for a little longer then let go and waved goodbye. I didn't hug anyone else goodbye and neither did he.

who do you think is the best choice? and why?