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So my ex had been shitty to me in the past yeah we had good times. But argued every other day. I still care But she said some harsh shit to me and was being racist too but I don’t think she Actuslly is. I've gave her many chances !! I forgave her and still was being her friend afterwards. But I wanted to move on and she kept pushing her feelings down my throat when I was trying to get space. so I blocked her on everything. She kept messaging me off of different numbers begging for chances and constantly sending paragraphs and even reached out to my roommates girlfriend and my roommates girlfriend told her shit that I did because she doesn’t like me. and I guess my ex believed it and starting talking shit. So I kept blocking her. Now she contacted my roommate too ! She kept messaging me off of different numbers and calling non stop!!! Literally acting crazy I told her I’d get a restraining order but I know she’d never do anything but still !! So I told her I’d unblock her Snapchat and if she really wanted to be friends I’d be her friend even though I don’t wanna talk. Am I giving her power? What should I do? She stopped texting as much but still... Would she think I still care that I did that?

My boyfriend and I are having a huge fight because I went to a comedy show with my best friend. He's male and straight but he has a girlfriend for 4 yours. We're just friends and there was never anything but friendship between us. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months now and he's living in a different country, I just came back home. I can see that it's difficult for him because he doesn't know my friends personally but I never gave him a reason to question my love and loyalty. He was going on about me being disrespectful and was also making jokes about me being on a date and was very short with me. I told him about having a male friend right away on our first date and he said he was okay with that and that he generally wasn't the jealous type. At first I tried to explain to him that he has nothing to worry about but he was kinda freaking out even more and said it makes it worse when I try to justify this and that trust is earned not given. Then I just said that I'm sorry and that I wasn't aware that it upsets him that much and that I wouldn't meet him alone again. I thought we're back to normal then but he's still very short with me so I asked him and he said he forgave me but he's still kinda mad and that he's now questioning the age gap and he would have already broke up with me if he didn't like me. I don't know what to do because I already apologized although I didn't even do anything. He never said that this is such a dealbreaker for him.

Was anyone of you ever in that situation (both sides) and can help?