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So maybe when people get older (late twenties) then women really wanna marry and stuff but in relation to young people, I think girls don't want relationships. At least not as much as guys. From my experience, many guys would love a great girlfriend and be exclusive and all that. Many young guys (I'm mainly talking about college students) want relationships. Not just sex but they'll take sex if girls come on to them.

When it comes to girls, I think they are the opposite. Many young girls don't want a relationships. I guess the media, feminism and culture these days is that women don't need men and are better off alone or some shit. Not to mention how everything encourages women to sleep around. I guess many girls are too ambitious these days. Every girl wants to be successful and therefore they don't have the time to date. This is just the way I see it. But I see a lot of girls avoiding relationships, and instead having casual sex in the veins of having fuckbuddies, fwbs as well as the odd hookup with a rando. I am not saying all girls hate and avoid relationships but I do think most girls these days, especially college girls hate dating and just wanna have fun, while they focus on career.

I also hate the way guys are labelled for only wanting sex and girls are labelled for wanting love and stuff. That couldn't be more false in my opinion. To me, the averge American girl wants to have fun and not get tied down, and a lot of guys want more than just sex but hey I could be wrong. This is just from my experience which is naturally linear, I guess it might just be my area but I've seen things like this on the internet and stuff so many it's the norm, I'm not sure.

We recently had "that conversation", you know, the one about our past sexual adventures and what not. For a guy, mine is pretty normal. When she opened up to me though, I couldn't help but feel grossed out. She's had over 20 partners, most being one night stands with guys she didn't know too well or barely knew at all. I think of this as a red flag, should I?

I'm a traditional guy though, and I feel that my future wife has to be "pure" and feel special to me. Giving herself to 20 plus guys before me sacrifices that. I'm not into slut-shaming but I just wouldn't wanna marry or get committed to a girl that's slept around - it's seen as a red flag at least by most men.

Is over 20 guys normal for girls though? I always assumed girls didn't sleep around much and were quite picky/conservative with who they slept with - I guess I was wrong? Like if it's normal that's a bit weird for me as I didn't think over 10 partners was common for girls.

Anyways what should I do? Most guys don't wanna date "sluts" or promiscuous girls, ] so that must be for a good reason right?

*Also we've been together for 8 months, so not much will be lost*