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I remember an incident when I was in 7th grade.

I lived in a very hot climate at the time, and everyone wore short-shorts (even though it was technically against dress code). I was a goody two-shoes for a long time and didn’t wear shorts, but finally I gave in and put them on, since nobody else was getting called out.
Feeling much more comfortable, I went to school and avoided a heat stroke! However, halfway through the day an announcement came over the intercom:
”not_a_queen, please report to the office.”
I went, wondering why I was being summoned to the gates of hell (aka the VP’s office).
Apparently, my shorts were “inappropriate,” “distracting,” and “broke the dress code.”
EVERYONE ELSE WORE THOSE SHORTS. SOME WERE SHORTER THAN MINE.
But, because I was not an anorexic stick, I got in trouble. Having an ass is a crime, apparently. I distracted someone (probably a male) to the point that my body had to be covered for his sake—even though it was 110 degrees (Fahrenheit) out and people regularly got heat stroke or other heat-related injuries. I felt ashamed and objectified, and (to this day) I rarely wear shorts outside of my house.

Similar incidents have happened to other girls. Oh, she’s wearing a tank top that bares her shoulders? WHAT A CRIME!! Look, that young woman with a larger cup size and a waist happens to be wearing a tight shirt? GET OUTTA HERE!!!

So, guys, is it really that distracting? Are you unable to learn and function at school if a girl wears form-fitting clothes? Should women have to cover their bodies because you guys just can’t handle it? Isn’t that insulting to both girls and guys?

Food for thought 😋

Ex friend-Annette
Ex friend’s ex boyfriend- Harry
Ex friends other ex boyfriend- Steve
Guy that told me she called me a whore-Josh.
If you read my first post that’s what it’s about. We really get along and spend time with each other and break and lunch along with Steve (who Annette went out with for a week and then dumped because she still had feelings for Harry). I’m still not sure if she called me a whore but Josh said she probably forgot about saying it. Harry is really nice to me and Josh said he thinks Harry has a thing for me because of “mannerisms” and stuff like that. I’ve gotten over wanting to get revenge for Annette calling me a whore but now I actually kinda like Harry. I don’t really believe in girl code because if you’ve split up then you don’t own him. If we’re best friends then I get that but if I’m not that close with you or if he didn’t matter that much to you then who cares? Also me and Annette WERE close but we don’t talk at all anymore.