Search Results: having a connection

Why would a man I barely know say he loves me during sex?

I just recently started seeing someone. We met for coffee about 2 weeks ago. There is a good connection between us, and we get along very well. I spent the last 2 nights at his place. I didn’t mean to stay for so long but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Confused about what to do next, should I take it the next step or keep status quo?

Hey there, I have been dating this girl for a month now, it has been incredible, she is great in every sense, for once I feel a real connection being made with a girl. Thing is I am not that great at stable relationships,...

roanfox1q

Xper 5 Age: 34

He feels a connection between us but it means nothing to him other than just having sex, why?

We come from different religions and that's a big thing for both our families And also he would never lie to me to get in my pants But why won't he fight to be with me despite all odds?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why the Threat of "Cancel Culture" is Just Reactionary Fear-Mongering

Many on the right have argued that cancel culture is a form of censorship being imposed by the censorious left. But the problem with that is that while the first amendment gives you the freedom to voice your opinion, it...

Ad_Quid_Orator

Guru Age: 36

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Can males be Polyamorous?

Situation. Your female and you are in a relationship with a male and he is not fulfilled with the physical intimacy of your relationship but very much satisfied with the emotional connection you share. Would you consider...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Caution!! The Biggest Mistake I See Women Make Early in a Relationship

I see questions all the time asking if she should text him, reach out to him, tell him she wants more. In a word, the general answer is no. The reason is a bit complicated but once you understand it, I hope you’ll see the...

AustinMan

Master Age: 48

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Would a guy ever say something about insta models being sexy around the girl he likes?

I literally sent him a post about Bella Hadid and the plastic surgeries that she has done over the past 10 years because he previously told me he thought she was natural (LMAO) Then he said "noo I can't believe she had...

LucyPag

Xper 5 Age: 26

What do you think about small talk?

Some people might think it's meaningless and a waste of time but I actually quite like small talk. Even if it's just talking about unimportant things like the weather or makeup, it's fun to me and more preferable than...

Nxtawm

Guru Age: 23

Did he lose interest in me or is afraid of being with me?

This guy that i was originally planning to just have a hook up with told me that he liked me and didn't want to just hook up and that he felt a connection with me. I thought that maybe we'll hang out and see where we are...

MariTorres13

Xper 4 Age: 29

Family & Friends

How to overcome Parentification?

Parentification is when a parent reverses the role and the child begins to take on what the parent should be. I have definitely had trouble with having deep connections with others. I have been called mature but it’s...

Anonymous

(25-29)

”Having it all” as a woman, does that scare men off?

My mother’s always told me I can only date/marry a man at “my level” or above. I always though that was a very ignorant statement. I’ve always thought highly of myself as a person but I’ve never thought I was anything...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do you think people get in multiple relationships at the same time? Not all people but a considerable amount does?

I do understand that people like having multiple options but shouldn't it be better to just focus on a single person and build a connection with? That's why it works for me and I've been curious to understand why...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Emotionally unavailable boyfriend?

He told me that he was sorry for being emotionally unavailable at times, which is true. I never told him but I always realised that he's unable to share a true connection during the 8 months I've been dating him. I asked...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Looking for silver lining: Did someone better come along after splitting up from someone that broke your hurt? Are fear and doubts normal?

Just broke up 2 months ago, and I have good days and bad days. However, this stupid thought keeps popping in my mind of what if I don't get that connection, or feelings or whatever again? My relationship was nowhere...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why was this necessary? Gravity Gaming Lounge destroyed by ANIMALS calling them selves protesters?

If this does not prove that the rioters are terrorists i do not know what will. I and some of my friends have started a go fund me for these people. Why a gaming lounge, what did they do wrong? They had no association...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Will I get better at being more social?

Here's the story. Ever since I moved to Florida six years ago, I've become more quiet. I have less in common with people here. Whenever I talk about my interests to people I'm just getting to meet, they just stare at me,...

Chester_Cheeto

Xper 5 Age: 21

Between safe comfort or new adventure?

This has been a very strong struggle of mine since January.. My heart hurts no matter what, and not many people I can talk to for advice. Old love X I have been with since 2011 and we have been together forever....

ElementalDrake

Xper 3 Age: 32

Girl's Behavior

Does she like me?

At the gym I workout, there is a receptionist I like, but low-key and never thought about having anything concrete. As it happens, I saw her profile on Tinder and ignored it or left swiped to avoid any awkwardness....

TheXhaka5

Xper 5 Age: 33