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Background: His name is Mark. He's 25 and I'm 23. We met at a mutual friends baby shower over a month ago. I was interested in him but at that time he had a girlfriend. Now they aren't together. I broke up with my now ex boyfriend 3 months ago because things were not working. Even after 4 years... I've tried everything to make my relationship work but my ex did not want to change his ways. We live together but I'm currently moving out.

Now that Mark ended things with his ex a month ago. They weren't together too long. Our mutual friend set us up. We have been talking through snap chat (before I give out my phone number). He has been really nice! I even told him he doesn't have to try that hard and he told me I made him blush! I asked him to hang out and we are next week. Then when he asked about my age... I told him. I asked if he was freaked out by it and he was all "I don't care about age. As long as they are 18, I'm good!"


I want to go on dates with someone and have fun. What do you guys think?

I apologize for the many posts, but my boyfriend keeps doing stuff i'm concerned about.

Tonight I visited him on a surprise whim and found him facebook video-ing his ex-girlfriend of 10 years. From my other posts, the same ex-girlfriend who cheated on him twice.

He didn't even look shocked or surprised or happy, he just said "Oh hey" and it took him another 10 minutes to hang up on her. It looked like she was just studying.

I asked him why he didn't leave her alone to study and he said that it's because he was working too and they just like each other's company and stress relief. I asked him about it and apparently they do this pretty frequently, sometimes until she falls asleep.

Who does that? Normal people say "Hey i'm going to bed, bye" not talk til one of them is snoring on the other line.

What do I do? I really am scared now.

I've been with my boyfriend for close to two years.
we've broken up once during our relationship, but of course we ended up missing eachother and getting back together. The thing though is, I found out through his ex girlfriend that he slept with her when we were apart. I was mad about that for a while but I forgave him. I also learned that during the time we were apart he hung out with a different girl, one he knew in high school a couple of times. when we got back together, I read messages between them and she was being pretty flirty. no, he didn't really respond back in a flirtatious way,

but in one of the messages she asked him if he wanted to have a sleepover, and he didn't reply with a straight yes or no. then she asked him again if he wanted to have a "pajama party" and he said "yess." When I confronted him about seeing the texts, he said it was all a joke and that he never had a thing with her. I feel paranoid though that he did, even though its been a few years. He couldn't tell me about sleeping with the ex (Shen did) so why would he tell me about the girl if he had slept with her? I know this probably doesn't matter but I have this weird feeling and when I stupidly went to talk to the girl about it, she told my boyfriend that I was crazy. Should I believe him?