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Get it off your chest: what is your biggest insecurity?

When I was originally thinking of this post, I wanted to touch on my weight. However, after some thinking, my weight isn't my issue; my lack of confidence is what really gets to me. I've been a bigger girl all my life....
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Is a guy actually capable of being able to tell if a woman lacks confidence/does that prevent them from approaching the woman?

My single status is really taking a toll on me. I cannot find a guy regardless of my years with free and paid online dating apps. I don’t have friends and this is how I hope to meet decent people. It doesn’t work but I...
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My single status is really taking a toll on me. I cannot find a guy regardless of my years with free and paid online dating apps. I don’t have friends and this is how I hope to meet Show More
Yes I can tell and I DO approach them
Yes I can tell and I DONT approach them
No I don’t really pay attention to that
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How do I become confident?

I’m 24 now, I thought as I’d grow older my confidence would grow but it hasn’t. This feeling, I have 0 confidence and I’d do anything to have some. How do I get it? What should I do? I can cry just typing this up bc it...
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Why Nice Guys Struggle With Women And How Bad Advice From Women Encourages Nice Guy Behaviour

A few people have been talking about the "bad boy" vs "nice guy" thing recently, and I've seen many guys asking how to become more confident in approaching women, so I thought I'd write a quick take on it (maybe it will...
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Can you be confident while ugly?

a lot of people call me insecure or say I have lack confidence... From no other reason other than my username and the fact I think I'm ugly... I wanna prove them wrong and say I'm the most confident guy in real life and...
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Be the best you that you can be...You are enough!

I was the 22 stone fat kid when i was in school, i had a few friends but would spend all my time outside of school (and later work) playing computer games in my bedroom and working on eating whatever i liked. I did try to...
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The difference between "nice guys" and "bad guys"

Aight so let's get a few things out of the way before we begin. First of all, I'm not defining nice guy as the fedora tipping sociopath who will message you 15 times before calling you a fat ugly whore who he doesn't want...
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Introverts. What do you do when you get lonely?

I’m very introverted. Partially due to a lack of confidence (I’m trying to build it). Also as I’m not a size 0. I was overweight , and am now average, but still feel self conscious. Quite a few knocks in life,...
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Why do people still think I'm younger?

I'm a 21 year old woman and people mistake me for younger. My family and friends say that I look 21 but if that's the case, then why do I get mistaken for younger? I am extremely shy and reserved around people I don't...
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Women with a rounder and more voluptuous body are more attractive (feminine) to older mature men?

Why do more curvy women lack self confidence and feel less desirable?
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Why do more curvy women lack self confidence and feel less desirable?
Mature men find curvy women more attractive
Even younger men find them attractive
Curvy women are unattractive
The more curves a women has the more desirable (feminine) she gets
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Would you watch a TED talk involving a sex worker starting her own company (now CEO, 10K/day) due to discrimination?

https://www.youtube.com/embed/gs8OgBVCx-E When people ask me how I got into sex work, I say it just happened. To be honest, sex work scared the s**t out of me. My sexuality and confidence were a mess from trauma, and the...
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Is lacking self-confidence a turn off?

If meet a guy who should be confident, has everything. But you can tell he isn’t confident. He also isn’t confident in progressing things with you because he’s shy and new to it.
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If meet a guy who should be confident, has everything. But you can tell he isn’t confident. He also isn’t confident in progressing things with you because he’s shy and new to it. Show More
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His body language?

There’s an older guy I see regularly that I’m attracted to. He smiles and waves at me when he sees me. I’ve seen him look over at me too sometimes. But he also has his head down when he walks by (which could be a sign...
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A friend of mine likes this girl, she is very attractive yet lacks confidence. why is this the case?

the girl is quite small, but if she is gorgeous shouldn’t she be confident?
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Can anxiety make you feel stupid?

I feel like I'm a very competent person, that I can be successful in anything I put my mind to. I can write well, play multiple instruments, write songs, I'm interested in philosophy and history and so on. But my anxiety...
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I'm dating a nice guy but repeat same subject?

Does he forget what he say? That's weird. I like him. Attractive British guy, tall, Caring, healthy, keep his words! Tries to impress me and Proudly he touches me in public BUT It sounds he is introvert and lack some...
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Can't get a date, stuck in a downward spiral, help needed, please?

Ok, here it goes! Confidence is domain specific and I lack it when it comes to girls. The only way to ask women out is to gain confidence and experience to do it but I have no confidence or experience because every single...
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I'm stuck in a spiral and I can't get a girlfriend, need advice?

Ok, here it goes! Confidence is domain specific and I lack it when it comes to girls. The only way to ask women out is to gain confidence and experience to do it but I have no confidence or experience because every single...
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