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First day of class. me looking here and there i saw a girl. I don't know I was attracted to look at her. now everyday I go and I sight her and I am like whoaah!.
I have never smiled at her or neither communicate. just I go and sit and slightly observe her. its like running rigors over my body.
She knows I look at her, she too secretly sights at me. I know I like her and every night 20 mins before sleep just I think of her. I note everyting of her what she wears etc.
I really feel I good. She also notes me now she sights me whenever I am working.

So my question is this lust or love? should I ask her out but I am afraid about my family and hers. please consider that this is india.
Also i am afraid of rejection. you can understand.
I am 5'10" 60kg. tall and skinny no muscles I know that I should improve. pls give advice

Me and my ex broke up a week ago and I ended up doing the dumb think of trying to take her back and yesterday she finally told me after 9 months she wasn't ready to commit to me yet and she didn't like me in that "way" anymore.. so I sent her a good last text because I'm going to give her space and not contact her... She said she loves me and love is forever and that she also cares for me and has some feelings for me. She said she doesn't want me and that right now isn't a good time... Should I try this no contact thing hoping she'll miss me and we could work this out, or should I just take my loss? She hopes I can show her that we could work out again in the future but right now would avoiding all contact with her help those chances? She wants me to be happy and I want her to be happy. I'm kind of afraid of her realzing whatever it is and it's to late. She doesn't feel much for me and she doesn't like me in that way now. And she also doesn't want me right now... Even after we broke up she still allowed me to talk to her and hug her and stuff which I think wasn't a good idea.. But if she didn't want to, she wouldn't have allowed it... So should I still hope that this will work out again? Some of my friends said if it was real, she'll come back then again if it was she wouldn't have left.. But I understand she isn't ready for a relationship period... Would giving her space completely help any? If she doesn't like me that way and doesn't want me... Could that feeling change if she missed me? If she misses me... From the talk we had tonight, I ended it on a good note and sent her a text so everytime she opens our thread she see it. It feels like if she misses me, we could get this right again... I'm worried that she won't.. I told her to look me in my eye and say she didn't want me, and she did and was feeling bad that it wasn't hurting her to say it... What should I do?

Almost a year ago, my ex-gf dumped me because I was a bad communicator. I went NC. We met a month later for me to get my stuff, and she was icy cold. I ignored a few things she liked on my social media months later, but when she wished me a happy birthday, I wrote her a thank you note, and finally gave her a poem I had written for her almost a year ago.

She replied 2 weeks later, saying thanks, and that she wanted to reach out sooner to see how I was, but didn't feel right about it (presumably since she dumped me, and not like I was hot ;) The question now becomes, should I wait one week or two to write her back? I'm leaning toward 2, because, when she dumped me, she said it felt like she had fallen out of love, and that I liked her more than she liked me. I don't want to be a dick, but I don't want her to think I'm at her beck and call, like some man-slave that's there when she gets bored with other men...