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My ex broke things off while he was on vacation. He texted said we need to talk then called & said that text was a “slip”. He said he wasn’t feeling it anymore & things weren’t progressing. After asking why, he said “you wanna know the truth? I never developed feelings for you since day 1.” So for 6 months he never developed feelings. The convo ended abruptly, but instead of calling back or seeing me in person... he ghosted me.

when we dated, everything was too perfect. We clicked like it was meant to be. We ignored the 10 year gap because it felt like we were meant to be. He wrote me paragraphs how he’s crazy about me, cares about me to the moon and back, how I’ll be his wife, this and that. He spent $400 on flowers for Vday- basically the way he acted & things he said, made me build fantasies about the future of us. He got a new house and I decorated it all. He introduced me to his entire family, his close friends and their families. He called me his fiancé. Literally eveything was going perfect and he always told me he’s going to fight for me and stay by my side no matter what happens because we are meant to be and no other man will ever have me. From all the good morning baby texts to goodnight baby texts to Random i miss you and I’m thinking about you texts to other texts and convos, I was happy and assured he was the one according to how he acted with me.

We had arguments but resolved them and never stayed mad. There were red flags though. he was emotionally and verbally abusive but was blinded by how much I fell for him. He told me things any woman would be upset about but i ignored. I thought I was overthinking or he gave an explanation. He slowly stopped to care, he didn’t compliment me, made me feel I wasn’t good enough for him. The make outs, touching, hugging stopped. He was always on his phone. I became cold towards him due to his behavior because he was acting cold & rude with me.

my boyfriend and I got back together after we had thought we were splitting up for good. I looked at his phone and saw that he had been talking to a girl he's known for about 8 years, who is from a different state but like him, moved to LA. They had gone to school together etc. A lot of the texts were about meeting up to hang out, but on her end it was pretty flirty. She was asking him questions like if he wanted to have a slumber party & he didn't say yes or no but said something about talking to her theater friends.

not long after she was asking again, but instead calling it a "pajama party." He actually said yes to this, but told me when I let him know I had seen it that no sleepover ever took place and that they didn't sleep together. The last message I saw from their conversation, he was saying he was on his way to her but other than the message from her asking there was no more talk about anything overnight. He actually never flirted just agreed to one thing she said. I think it was to be nice I don't know. What do you think? When I asked him if he thought she was pretty he said he thought she was modest..

she also asked him if he thoufgt she was pretty