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I have a different perspective on love than most people. I see love in more of a scientific sense. I see love as a source of personal pleasure and natural biology, when we look for love we seek mainly two things, pleasure and procreation. When we love someone we are flooded with "feel good hormones" such as oxytocin, dopamine and serotonin and we naturally seek pleasure as humans just like how you listen to your favorite song and eat your favorite food you get pleasure from that. We also seek love in order to procreate and keep the human population flourishing, i. e. sex. I probably left some facts out but you probably got the gist of it by now. Some of you may think it's bland and dull, some of you might agree, some of you might find it cute in a nerdy way.

BEFORE YOU GET THE WRONG IDEA OF ME

Do I believe in love? Yes, I just don't believe in the whimsical fantasy of it portrayed in movies and fairy tales on how there's destiny and there's that "one" out there.

Do I think love is all about sex? Mostly, but it doesn't have to be. I'm actually waiting until marriage to have sex and populating the world isn't important anymore. The reason I say mostly is because if sex wasn't a thing then relationships wouldn't be a thing either, there would be no gender and no real reason to be in relationships and we would have friends instead.

I mean for a serious relationship. A guy age 25+ dating an 18 year old girl. She might still be in high school or fresh out. This is not just about sex, this is about the relationship as a whole.
He might even be waiting until marriage for sex and he's dating an 18 year old because she hasn't given her virginity away.
Maybe he doesn't want kids until much later and wants someone who will still be young and fertile when he's ready.
Whatever the reason, there is no ill tensions involved in this scenario, the guy genuinely wants a real relationship.

Me n my girlfriend have been together for 10 and never had sex. She says she’s waiting until we’re married. I’m still a virgin, she isn’t. So this doesn’t make sense to me. I know a relationship isn’t 100% about sex, but. The only reason a couple should never have sex is if there is health issues that get in the way, and we’re both healthy!

I’ll be honest, other than not having sex she is a good girlfriend. She comes over on her off days preps my meals for the week. Can’t remember the last my I fed myself. She’s been supportive through my rough times.

Regardless of how good she is I’m ready to just leave all that behind. I’m starting to regret my time wasted. She tells me “I can’t live without you”, but that doesn’t mean anything at this point.