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Hi guys! I'm hoping I can get some advice for my dilemma. My boyfriend is 30 and I'm 22. He is much more experienced than I am and has been to many countries. We live together now and have been together for 2 years. The thing is, he calls me a "bitch", "motherfucker" and some other horrible things when he gets mad. It's so painful but at the same time his reason for getting angry have some merit. I just wish he didn't succumb to so much name calling.

Examples:

-He pulled my hair and punched me in the arm after I walked away from him. I had a bad habit of doing this and he said it made him feel like I didn't take him seriously. -We have been trying to get a business started and he yells at me for not having ideas and my low drive. He says I'm not good at anything and I'm stupid. I've been so stressed and confused as to what to do with the rest of life and what major to choose in school. I don't know what to do..

-Recently, he left me in charge of finding a new apartment for us in a good area since our lease had ended and we were in a hurry with a low budget. We signed the lease and when he saw the apartment he HATED it and called me a bitch, ignorant, and motherfucker. Saying this is a step backwards. I felt so bad and embarrassed! He apologized in the morning as always and says he knows he has a temper problem.

As you can see, I do make tons of mistakes and feel like I can be stupid sometimes. But is he in the wrong or is my behavior so terrible? I told him he can leave and I would understand why. But he hasn't. He says he loves me. I don't know guys. I need your advice. Am I wrong or is he?

I met my friend the first day of my freshmen year at college, talked to me first and we just joked about how college would be an interesting experience. He asked for my number so I gave it and we started texting it would be random and it would be all the time. There were multiple days he would drive me home and we would sing and blast music in the car. At school in the arcade he would come up behind me and play with my hair and would hang out we would go to Starbucks or have breakfast together this was all 2-3 weeks ago and now he's suddenly ignoring me! I didn't do or say anything bad or wrong and at first I thought he's just joking around or something And the next day at school he said he would drive me home so I waited 4 hours and it turns out he left at a while ago so that was irritating I tried texting but got no response yet when he wants to make plans or know where I am I text him back. It's been a week since he's talked to me and when he does say something it's something like ew why are you here and fuck off and then I just calmly reply with a fuck you and walk away but yesterday I was hanging out with this guy and he let me use his console and we were sitting and just talking and my friend who has been ignoring me walked up Behind me and he started playing with my hair and I just continued talking to the guy and playing the game and my friend pulled my hair harder so I turned around and said hi and he just stood there staring at me and he didn't say anything to me then he walked over to people he doesn't even like and started laughing and talking loudly with them and today I was in the arcade again and my friend was behind the glass in another room and he looked up and I waved and he just pretended like he couldn't see me then when people came over and talked to me he was watching me and then when I got up to leave he smirked at me and I tried to say hi and he just wouldn't Acknowledge me and I don't know what to do