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How do you know if you still love someone?
My husband cheated on me all throughout my pregnancy and after our child was born, sexting tonnes of women and sleeping with 5.
I found out and was devastated. We tried to work on it but the trust was never there.
Then I had an affair. I told him about it and he accepted it because of what he had done, he gave me permission to do it. It did make me feel a little better. At least I was honest.
We have a child and we are always fighting over the littlest things and I don't know if it's now time to give up?
How do you know if you are still in love with someone?
We used to be so happy, I use to be so excited to see him now I dread the thought of him coming home.
When he tells me he loves me it sounds so robotic and half the time i just want to roll my eyes and not say it back.
The sex is shit. There's no passion.
He is so wrapped up in his phone, always on it even if we are watching a movie together.
he's liking girls photos on Instagram yet he can't like any of mine, which he knows upsets me and I found photos of lots of girls in his phone and he said it just happens by accident. How do you accidentally save lots of photos of random girls?
he's mentally abusive and has the shortest temper. He is impulsive and thinks of his needs before others. Can't even buy me a birthday, Christmas present but can spend lots of money on stupid collectables. Can't even put money on the table to support his child but always has money for pointless objects.
He burps in my face and thinks it's funny, does things that he knows constantly annoys me like flicking boogers on me.
When do you know that enough is enough?
I know that I'm not perfect, we both did wrong but I thought it was out of our system.

Why or why not?
When it comes to Santa Claus, the tooth fairy, and stuff like that, do you find it okay?

or when it comes to family secrets and stuff like that, when parents hide things about themselves from their kids? Like for example, I know a few women that hide their abusive relationships from their kids and they make the father look like "the perfect husband and father".

When do you think it's okay to lie to kids?