Search Results: afraid to make a move

Extremely mixed signals, help?

I'll make this as short with as much detail as possible. Coworker I'll call Jake, he and I always flirt with each other. Everyone can see it. He admitted to another coworker of ours he thought I was cute. She drilled...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm considering withdrawing from this friendship out of fear of returning feelings, is this the right move?

I had a brief thing with a female friend, which ended because I wasn't ready to move forward due to anxiety-inducing confusion—I didn't communicate this until too late and she felt led on. We somehow got past it though...

Anonymous

(25-29)

5 Awesome Tips On How To Pick Up Guys

1. Dress Cute Dressing cutely is super important for attracting guys, try out many different outfits and clothes and see which one is best for you! Guys love feminine girls, so make sure you rock that dress, skirt, top,...

Bubbles45

Xper 7 Age: 22

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Is it bad if I can't move on from her?

I made the decision to let her go and regretted. I felt it was the right thing to do, because I fell in love with someone who meant the world to me. Unfortunately, she passed away to cancer. I lost hope in love. Many...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Will a shy guy ever make a first move?

Specifically speaking, there's an older, shy and very insecure guy that I like and I already made some indications that I might like him (Asked him whether he'd like to grab a cup of coffee...) and there are quite a lot...

carly1228

Xper 5 Age: 27

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20 something year olds: What are some things you learned about life?

Me: * I'm a good girl but sometimes bad boys will like me. I have no clue why... They'll try to lower your self esteem and then ask you out. I've ran into one of these jerks who got upset I dissed him. I learned a lot...

ShrimpRice

Xper 2 Age: 34

I really don't get his behavior?

I met this guy about 3 years ago and ever since i known i had a thing for him but i also known that i have like 0 chances because i'm not his type so i've done everything i could to just forget and tried to lie myself...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I find girls with blonde hair&blue eyes the most attractive but I'm too afraid to make a move because usually they are not into white guys?

What to do? I feel really miserable because of this. A part of me thinks that I should try talking to them but a part of me (brain) tells me to calm down because they generally are not attracted to white guys so what...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is my boyfriend a nice guy?

Ok, my boyfriend and I been dating 9 months. Tonight we hung out and we haven't had sex yet. We are both shy and I'm pretty sure he's afraid to make the move. He only had 1 other girlfriend, and my boyfriend always asks...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What did he mean by this?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does he see me as long term?

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can I stop falling in love?

I've been chatting it up with this guy now for a lqittle while now. I'm really starting to like him a lot more than I should. He just makes me laugh a lot. I smile more when I'm around him. I'm just so much...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Help please ! I’m hitting rock bottom?

Ever since I moved last year, I’ve been unable to focus on school, family, and myself. I struggled making friends, because no one in high school/outside of my high school simply wants friends. I’m a senior. I missed so...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He confessed and keep saying he want to talk but ghosted me?

this guy confessed and suddenly he became cold towards me. i confronted him asking why and if he's not planning to keep it going let me know as i will understand and move on from it as he knows im feeling the same way. he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why are my ex-boyfriends actions extremely confusing?

I've known my ex-boyfriend for 25 years. We only started dating 4 years ago, but broke up last year. He left me because he was afraid of commitment. He texted me every day after he moved back to the Pacific Northwest (I...

allyflower979

Xper 5 Age: 46

What's up with my ex's polyamorous behavior?

I need help. I've known my ex-boyfriend for 25 years. We only started dating 4 years ago, but broke up last year. He left me because he was afraid of commitment. He texted me every day after he moved back to the Pacific...

allyflower979

Xper 5 Age: 46

What does he want?

I’m in a very complicated situation and I’m unsure how to proceed. I feel I am unable to correctly read the signs this guy at work is giving me. For example, he will flirt with me all the time at work and come visit me on...

Vicbeckler

Xper 6 Age: 29

Can I still turn my back and say sorry to her?

We went on a 2nd date; bowling and went to the movie. I dropped her off, and we hugged. I drove out of her apartment, and parked on the sidewalk and thought about it. I liked her, but I'm afraid of relationship because of...

PeterThePan

Xper 5 Age: 34