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Instead of breaking up? PLEASE help me in this situation. My boyfriend is in the army and we are in a LDR. We were really close at first and texted every day. Then after some time, he grew distant. I realized something was wrong and I checked his dating profile (we met on a dating site) to find he is still an active paying member! When I confronted him and threatened to break up, he cried, denying so many times that he's not cheating. That he loves me and he will never find someone to replace me. He said he never goes in FB and uses the dating site to communicate with his gay friends as he went through a gay phase when he went through a relationship crisis. I responded I needed time to think.

That day when I asked him to call me, he seemed miserable and was pretty sure I was breaking up with him. He still denied cheating all the way. He is Catholic and he even swore in the name of Jesus and God that he isn't cheating on me. He also said I affected him at work, and he got yelled at by his commanding officer, lost some things and things have gotten stolen (but I think he is lying and guilt tripping me). He promised me he would delete his profile and change his description saying "in a relationship and looking for friends". He did neither. He is growing a lot more distant but he still has his profile up. Is he cheating on me? I don't have proof by the way.

PS: I told him to make our FB relationship status public but he said his family would be critical and nagging because he had wrong choices of women in the past that hurt him.