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My grandma can't visit me ( her grandaughter) for more than 2 weeks because her excuse is that her grandkids need her.. Her grandkids are in their 30's with kids. She was then telling me that my cousins girlfriend told her to not go to a baby shower or else she won't talk to her just because that baby shower was hosted by a girl that my cousin use to like in middle school lol We are in our 20's now lol.. but she was always a family friend! So my grandma said she didn't go but wanted to go so bad! Why the heck does my cousins girlfriend care if my grandma goes? Last month my cousin hit his girlfriend bad and my grandma decided to keep it hidden and tried brainwashing the girl to not call the cops. My grandma won't stop telling me how good guys her grandkids are (my cousins) but they are thieves, hit women, cry babies.. etc. It's getting out of control My grandma is in her 70's and her health is bad :/ She cooks for 10 people who are in their 30's everyday. She can't handle that though. She's always in and out of the hospital because she shouldn't be cooking anymore! But my cousins don't care about her. My cousin even told me that he's going to take my grandmas house away becuase it's under his name. How evil is that? He doesn't even pay rent. My grandma says " aww he's living with me because he doesn't want me to be alone" but it's not because of that. I'm really worried. What should I do?

So I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years
Ever since we got official, we post pictures of us on social media
But on February, we broke up and then he deactivated all his social media (facebook and instagram)
We were still seeing each other as friends - going out to movie, etc
But then 3 months later, we got back together
So anyways, he is still not on any social media because he says he doesn't need it right now but he will be back on social media on November since there's a big event for us

But today, we had this conversation:
Him - babe I don't want you taking random pictures of me and putting it on social media. I didn't like it that you took a random photo of me cooking last night and put it on social media
Me - so you don't want me to put our pictures up?
Him - I don't mind if it's a group photo or a couple photo of us, but if it's a random photo of me doing something, I don't like it. You don't tell me when you take a photo of me and that's not nice. And plus, I don't want to be on social media. I don't want my photo up anywhere on social media
Me - why you making a big deal?
Him - There's a reason why I'm not on social media. I don't want anyone knowing what I'm doing. It's none of their business
Me - Ok? It's like you don't want people to know about us?
Him - Are you serious? Everyone knows about you. People at my work and even my exes. Remember how one of my exes stalked your instagram? How do you think she found out?
Me - She found me on your instagram
Him - yeah exactly, so she knows who you are, and if she wants to stalk me again , but I'm not on social media anymore, she will stalk you
Me - right... ok
Him - I just don't want my pictures to be up on social media right now. I will be back on it on November, so please don't upload any random photos of me next time. And plus, we are planning to do a fitness couple photoshoot so I will put our pictures up on my facebook and instagram. I just don't want pictures of me right now.

Is this shady?

A. Works in a small firm in a provincial city. Typical small town girl. Short, normal body, gummy smile, crooked lower teeth, hooded baggy eyes pointing down, very sociable, likes to party and be the center of attention, is very proud of her degree and job. Did an Erasmus/exchange but hadsn’t travelled much otherwise. Hobbies are reading, playing volleyball, cooking healthy stuff. Very secure of herself, not a great fashion sense, a bit of a dumpy frumpy. She only speaks English. You were good friends before you dated her, started dating as you occasionally hooked up and it just happened. Dating her is super easy, she’s into you and she’s conveniently already part of your friends group.

B. Works in a prestigious company. Before that she shortly worked in the humanitatian sector. Wealthy background, she travels a lot and speaks 6 languages. Tall and lean, used to model during university to earn some pocket money. Sporty, loves nature. She also loves arthouse movies and works in the organization of a film festival in her free time. Slightly shy and insecure, she doesn’t seem to think excessively highly of her achievements. She says she’s crazy in love with you and seems genuine. You two laugh a lot together, she’s sweet but slightly shy at first around new people. She doesn’t follow trends but has a great and very original fashion sense. Dating her involves some small degree of challenge, for example she lives in a different city.