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His stance is always this phrase''whoever loves you (me) then loves me''. While it's sweet, he once treated a boyfriend horrible.

In the end even though we didn't end up together with kids (I broke up because it was me that wasn't feeling it anymore while he still was in love), my father realized his mistake but it was too late. Even though he was willing to accept him as part of the family, the guy didn't like my father too much. I think you have a right to not like someone that was hostile towards you for over 2 years and it cost you endless hardwork to get accepted.

That stance shows a fallacy there. He loved me but didn't like nor trust (much less love) my father. And he definitely didn't see my father as his family. Just because your parents finally accept and likes your partner doesn't mean has to feel the same way, esp if they got treated poorly for an extended period of time.

I can think of a couple examples:
- My friend's mother once called the boyfriend a loser and said other horrible things. He was hurt for a long while and in his view ''she hurt his ego/pride so badly''. They eventually made up and get along now but it took time.
- I know of a girl that said NO when asked if she would say yes if he were to get on his knees and ask her to spend the rest of her life with her. He broke up and till this day (7 years since that rejection) never spoke to her again.
- Stories about 2 guys that never got over the day their HS crush humiliated them and made some classmates laugh. They must be already in her mid 20's by now and nope, they never spoke to the girl again nor accepted her apology.

So overall, is the male ego/pride really that sensitive? I can get my feelings broken too (we also got ego and pride) but means the guys takes it sooo hard. He either takes too long to get over it or doesn't.

So this guy call him Mr. X and I were seeing each other in 2018 and then in 2019 for some time on off and I got into a relationship long distance one and broke up and he got to know in a different way like I sent him a " how well do you know me?" Quiz in which I wrote my BFs name and that I'm taken in 2020 July. He asked me if I'm single? I said no I'm in long distance that time and he said me how could I do that to him? And that he felt hurt and he felt bad and said it's ok and he felt too bad he told me. I felt horrible. And then I broke up with my long distance boyfriend and I told Mr X about why I broke up n all. That's it. After a month, he and I started dating again in 2020 October. I asked him our anniversary date that I forgot and he said that it don't matter to me but it mattered to him and I said no it does matter to me. And he is not telling me the anniversary of our very first meet's date.