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I'm seeing this guy for about 2 months now. He's great - sweet, funny, nice looking, similar interests and we just get eachother. I've been dating him for a while but I am really confused. I'm not falling in love with him, but I don't want to stop seeing him either. This makes me wonder if he could be a romantic match or that he's just a good friend. Because what I noticed is that I think I like him better when he's around his friends/people he knows than when he's with me alone.

Maybe we're dating wrong? We've been on several dates, including dinner, cinema, with him at home watching a film and going to a boardgame night together. And since we kinda have the same social connections we hang out together in friendgroups too. We're both members of studentclubs that also work together to organize activities and parties - me a choir, he a dramagroup. For example I went to see some plays he starred in and went to a pub afterwards with him and his friends.

I'm probably holding back more than I should when it comes to the touching and kissing bit... (just to be clear we did kiss) but I'm not sure if I want to do all that stuff before I'm certain I like him that way.

I've been in love before with this other guy and went through everything before - being unable to eat, sleep, feeling tons butterflies, wanting to listen to lovesongs all day, thinking about him (other guy) all the time - however he wasn't interested in me. This guy does seem interested in me, tho, but said impact isn't happening with this guy (or very very very slowly?). All I feel is a little nervous around him. However I do feel jealous when I think of him with another girl and I'd hate the thought of never seeing him again.

Ugh, it's so confusing.. what do you guys think?