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Although I'm in a relationship, thinking back on previous guys who've hit on me. I came up with some odd thoughts a lot of them are conventionally attractive. Fit, tan guys with the ability to do all the gym. Guys who shouldn't even like a fat, pale, short haired writer. I'm pretty sure I was a pity girl or a project (girl you mold into your hottie)...
Anyway was I right to be suspicious or overreacting?

I keep seeing people asking questions like 'am I hot? *insert uglyass skinny bitch on her underwear*' or 'is she out of my league? *posts picture of a pale skinny ass boy + girl who's clearly too pretty for him*' and you guys are always super kind in the answers.

I'm not criticizing I think we should be nice to people but... you sneaky asses are lying... those people are as ugly as the sun is bright... isn't it kinder to be harsh but honest?

Im wondering if I appear gothic to others because I've been getting a lot of commentary, especially online, about being so. Like, I'll get guys who message me certain things, and I don't really pay attention to labeling myself or describing myself but now I'm wondering how I appear to others. I've got dyed black hair, cut into a short flapper like bob/long shaggy pixie. I always wear winged eyeliner, shadow, pale skin, reddish lips. I listen to punk/post punk/gothic artists of the 80's and 90's and share such songs on Facebook. I have and love my cats. I usually dress in all black and with my black boots. I have long pointed fingernails. I like to take pictures of destructed places, woods, and probably creepier stuff. I love photography and film and especially of the horror genre. I also love gothic pinup style, with latex and leather clothing. But I also love non-gothic stuff as well, so I don't know. Do I give off a gothic vibe if I'm as I how i described?