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About 3 moths ago I had an abortion I deeply regret. My boyfriend at the time was being a complete controlling jerk to me and everyone on my side was worried for me and told me abortion would save me and the baby from this Boyfriend of mine and his behavior. Not to mention I was gonna give up NYU, my friends,and try to find a place and he nor I had a job.

Well I went through with it after being so stressed and couldn't handle his controlling so I got the abortion. I tried to do the right thing for 2 months but his behavior scared me I do not wanna be a woman who had to quit school cause her Boyfriend couldn't help her ad get controlled by him. I regretted it so much and my Boyfriend was upset when he found out but forgave me.

I now realize I shouldn't have done it no matter what. I love him so much and he was controlling due to confusion over the pregnancy. I have severe anxiety and my friends/family kept saying they'd think if I had HIS baby Id ruin mine and baby's life and that he was only using me and baby as his meal tickets (which seemed congruent with his behavior at the time)

I started NYU and stopped talking to friends that convinced me to do it and am going to therapy. Me and my Boyfriend are on better terms and I am pregnant again. I am keeping it (I wanted another baby so bad after abortion)

I am so happy and wanna do the right thing. I even gave up going to get a pre pre cancer treatment on cervix to have my baby.

I even went to confession. Am I crazy and a horrible person hat I aborted and now want a baby? (I also drank with the 1st one cause I didn't know, took vitamins too late, had fish, and was super stressed) this time around I am calmer and he's not controlling me. since I am already in school, I can take off and get gov help to take care of baby.

If you were using your gf's pregnancy as a meal ticket so that you can benefit w/o being concerned that shed have to give up school, curse at her, tell her "I'm the father you should listen to what I say" and threaten her friends while she's pregnant cause she's out, continue drinking, and basically push her to find a place while you sat on your ass; would you be shocked/hurt if she decided to have an abortion(behind your back cause she thought you'd kill her) cause she was scared by this treatment?

you know you messed you by acting possessive and crazy while she was stressed ad you never supported her worries enough . you were more concerned with yourself. would this girlfriend deserve to be broken up with?