I'm pregnant and my boyfriend doesn't believe me !

[Anonymous]

So May first me and my boyfriend were in bed together and we fooled around he fingered me and we got very close to having sex but we didn't he had the condom on and everything but I was to scared so we stopped ! I thought I was doing the right thing. My stomach started hurting and I ended up not getting my period after so I decided to go to the doctor mean while my boyfriend dumped me ! It turns out I'm about 3 weeks pregnant and it is exactly three weeks from when we fooled around ! I told my doctor and he said it could be a pre ejaculatory pregnancy but my boyfriend or now my ex thinks I made it up to get him back and thinks its impossible ! I don't know how to explain that this is real and really happening please help !

[ArtistBboy]

1. Stop stressing ; if you go paranoid on him he will think its a bunch of BS
2. Get a statement from your doc. saying your prego
3. Walk up to your ex (even if his friends are around) and say exactly these words "Heres the slip proving I have your kid inside me"
4. Wait for his reaction

If he crumbles to his knees and cries - he will be a good father
If he asks what are "we" supposed to do now - he will be a good father
If he says something rude and throws the slip down / in the trash - Its time to report his ass to authorities. (im being real, not sarcastic - imagine the other girls that will go through this)

I hope this helps you and brings a realisation to your life, sex isn't all its made out to be~
ArtistBBoy

If I can help further let me know.

[Hippy]

I agree and also to add to this ask your dr foe some leaflets on this to give to him good luk

[Bowie47]

I agree with you the whole 10 yards. I think if he gets rude then its time to call DHR...

[Asker]

The thing is he lives in another state so I can't see him till he comes down so I'm really stuck when I told him he was like " it's impossible it's mine" and I told him to not worry bout it and I don't need him to be there and he said I'm gonna call you later and he never did it's been a day since he has said that ... He thinks I just want him back or that I cheated . I do love him and would love to be with him but that is not why I'm pregnant !!

[ArtistBboy]

=) "Where there is a will - there is a way." -- Simply said, if you want this guy to believe you, fight for it up to a certain point. Find the money to travel to him and then give him the slip, smile and walk away ; this will make you feel much better down the road versus not doing anything and letting him walk away. Then you can tell the child at least you fought for the father of the child to see them - The child will still be hurt if he is a bad father, but its better than nothing.

ArtistBboy

[babygurl4u]

I would get him over to ur house and take a pregnancy test right in front of him. This situation would probably be a little hard for him to understand seeing that you didn't actually have intercourse but explain it to him the best you can. If worst comes to worst like KetchupSL said, make sure you get ur child support. Best wishes.

[KetchupSL]

I think your best bet is to get a sonogram and show him the picture, then he'll believe you. He may believe you and just be acting as if he doesn't to excuse himself from the responsibility. But just know if he's not around, you better get that child support from him! Meanwhile, I hope all goes well.

[blueyedgrll]

I would take him to see your doctor with you the next time you go. What better way to hear it then from the doctor. How could he not believe you then? If he refuses to go then tell him he's in denial and needs to man up.