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I went out on 2 dates with a guy I met from Bumble. They went pretty smoothly, not great but not horrible. I'm physically attracted to him but emotionally not at all. I went back to his place on the second date to just hang and 'watch a movie'. I was ready to mess around some and maybe hookup, but all he did was cuddle a bit and hold my hand. I was a little confused because I was expecting more. He didn't make any other moves or advances. The next day I texted him to say thanks for dinner and his reply was concise and seemed a little forced. So, I didn't text back just because I didn't want to be a nuisance. Next day I'm looking through bumble and our conversation dissapeared. Generally, this means he either blocked or unmatched me. I was a little dissapointed because I was planning on texting him and explaining that I wanted a casual, no-commitment type of deal between us. Now though I feel like I lost my chance at a decent no strings attached relationship. Would it still be worth a shot to shoot him a text letting him know what I want or would that be ridiculously desperate?

Hi I have been friends with this guy at for a few years. We have hanged our a few times and it seemed like there was more to our friendship. However when I asked him what Wa going on ( as in between us) he responded:

Sorry for late response. Recently I’ve been getting the feeling that you want our relationship to be more than ‘just friends’. I do think that you’re an awesome person and I genuinely respect you. However, I don’t want/I’m not ready for a relationship now and I’m very sorry if I have been giving you the wrong impression or mixed signal. I hope this will not affect our friendship as I do enjoy your company. I hope my stance is clear and sorry if I have made it seem like I want to take it to the next level.

So we then agreed we were just friends and it was just harmless flirting nothing to it.

However a few days ago he sent this text:

Hey how is your break going. I reckon we should do it!
When I responded do what he replied never mind.

I feel like since we have both agreed that we are just friends no one should be asking or doing things to make the other feel uncomfortable. From my perspective he wants me to treat him like a boyfriend but without making the commitment and I'm not willing/ Dont want to do that. It's at a point where I'm just getting annoyed with him. Should I end this friendship?

I'm talking about fundamental things:

- If you're looking for a relationship but someone you've been seeing says "I'm just not ready for that type of commitment" but still wants to hang out.

- If one of you wants children and the other says they don't.

- If one of you wanted to wait an undetermined amount of time to begin a physical relationship.

These are only examples, so if they don't apply then try and consider something that would 😊