Search Results: she was raised not to show her love

I like this type: "A girl who wishes to be a housewife, to serve her husband and prepare for him delicious meals and make her home clean and cozy and to raise her kids on a good enlightened manors and disciplines and to make a strong bond in the family where she makes everyone happy and relaxed and also to respect her husband and always listen to him & be on his side...it's also very nice that she have a strong faith in god and to believe that everything will be OK and fine and never surrender...etc"

By the way, her husband will make her his princess and will love her and take care of her forever and work hard to provide for his family and always listen to his wife and support her and make her happy and make her feel very precious and always tell her that without her, he's noting and she's his everything and he can never live without her...he will also try to be with her each second he can and to show her how much he loves her...make her feel that she's his equal and even he's the breadwinner but without her he wouldn't be...there is no you and no me there is us cause we are one...and our marriage must be forever, and he will be the good role model for his kids to show them how a real family is and so the kids trust their parents that they are together forever no matter what and when they truly love each other than nothing can separate them...

I've thought about cheating and why it's not the same when a man cheats and when a woman cheats in a relationship.

I've idealized relationships a lot through my life but eventually I'm always forced to come to the conclusion that we are basically animals and no matter how civilized we'd like to be, we behave like such. Therefore when I say that a mans aim in relationship is to reproduce with as many women as possible and a womans aim is to find the best partner to have her kids and raise them, I'm not trying to insult anyone. I'm also not trying to sound macho... I just always end up with this conclusion based on what I see.

Therefore it seems to me that when a man cheats on a woman, it should be perceived as less severe than when a woman cheats on a man. After all the man is programmed to want to mate as much as possible and if he is willing to come back to his wife afterward, it's a sign that his cheating was purely sexual and a result of his genetic program. Therefore he still loves her, he just needs sex.

When a woman cheats, however, she shows that she does not think that she is with a genetically superior mate and tries to collect other genetic information outside of her relationship.Therefore she doesn't love him, she just stays with him because he serves her as a provider.

Am I totally wrong on this? I always imagined that the partners should stay happy together for always but I've seen the happiest of men long after sex outside of their relationships although they loved their partners. How do girls think about this?

Let me know, thank you.