OK, if you are a guy and don't want a brutally honest answer then I suggest you stop reading now. I know I am going to get a lot of people who disagree with me because society has drilled into us so deeply and from an early age to not to be true to our own natural instincts.
I am so f***ing tired of hearing guys whine about this. While I admit that some girls do go for jerks, you have to stop and look at the environment they were raised in. Most of them had fathers who treated their mothers like dirt. These poor girls don't know any better and are falling into a pattern set out by their parents. These girls are few and far between, but I digress.
There are plenty of guys out there that honestly believe they are nice. They start out nice but eventually their true personality shows through and then they complain when a girl figures this out and stops talking to them or leaves them. "Why don't girls like nice guys." Because you are not a nice guy.
Then there are the fat and/or ugly guys. (Like I said earlier, I am going to be brutally honest.) It doesn't matter how nice you are, if you are not physically appealing, you will only be able to get a girl of the same caliber and since most girls do pay attention to their looks, you have fewer girls to chose from.
I know society has taught us differently, but looks of a potential partner are more important to us girls then they are to guys. As the ones that bare the children it only makes sense that we will be attracted to genetically superior guys. It is not like you can't do anything about, go to the gym, get some style, have better hygiene, eat healthy, go to a dermatologist. Do whatever you need to to fix what is making you physically unappealing.
I hate hearing guys whine about this so much and even more I hate most of the answers on here that are given because most are not brutally honest. The ones that are seem to be coming from another guy. Ironic.
I am lucky enough to have found a nice guy who also happens to be hot and I love it. These guys are few and far between and I constantly let him know how lucky I am to have found him.
I am so f***ing tired of hearing guys whine about this. While I admit that some girls do go for jerks, you have to stop and look at the environment they were raised in. Most of them had fathers who treated their mothers like dirt. These poor girls don't know any better and are falling into a pattern set out by their parents. These girls are few and far between, but I digress.
There are plenty of guys out there that honestly believe they are nice. They start out nice but eventually their true personality shows through and then they complain when a girl figures this out and stops talking to them or leaves them. "Why don't girls like nice guys." Because you are not a nice guy.
Then there are the fat and/or ugly guys. (Like I said earlier, I am going to be brutally honest.) It doesn't matter how nice you are, if you are not physically appealing, you will only be able to get a girl of the same caliber and since most girls do pay attention to their looks, you have fewer girls to chose from.
I know society has taught us differently, but looks of a potential partner are more important to us girls then they are to guys. As the ones that bare the children it only makes sense that we will be attracted to genetically superior guys. It is not like you can't do anything about, go to the gym, get some style, have better hygiene, eat healthy, go to a dermatologist. Do whatever you need to to fix what is making you physically unappealing.
I hate hearing guys whine about this so much and even more I hate most of the answers on here that are given because most are not brutally honest. The ones that are seem to be coming from another guy. Ironic.
I am lucky enough to have found a nice guy who also happens to be hot and I love it. These guys are few and far between and I constantly let him know how lucky I am to have found him.
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