No, nice girls are great!
The only issue is that some people will try to take advantage of you, which is probably why you got all of them bad boys attracted to you.
Well maybe not just that...there's some truth to what they say about opposites being attracted to each other.
That said, I think the genuine nice guy would be interested in meeting the genuine nice girl, instead of having to constantly deal with all those girls who are going to treat him like garbage.
I'm not sure why you're not going very far with the guys who notice you. Perhaps they're just not the right type of guys for you. Other than that, the only thing I can suggest is if you ever are on a date with a guy who is not a bad boy, make sure you show him that you enjoy his company and try to make him feel confident that he is doing the right thing. A lot of guys probably haven't met many girls like you, and so they probably have a harder time interpreting you.
If you're polite all the time, they may worry that you're not really interested in them or what they do, and you're just being polite around them.
I like the nice girls but it seems that the nice girls seem to gravitate to the bad boys. Unfortunately some guys (the bad boys) see nice girls as a easy pickings. Which is why this happens but the girls shouldn't just cave in. You would think that in this day in age when you hear and told about the empowerment of women they wouldn't still be settling for the bad boys that they would stand their ground. Peer pressure and supposed friends and the rest of society are making some of the nice guys and nice girls change just to fit in.
Yes maybe I'm old fashioned and people think I should go the the way of the dodo bird and for those people to bad. I wish you luck on your quest to find that nice guy. Were out there just getting harder to find.
It depends you do know opposites attract right.
You seem just like me. I used to be that nice girl too.
You'r not doing anything wrong.
Your just nice so you let them hurt you. Please don't put yourself through that.
No one deserves it especially a nice girl like you. Your relationship proabaly don't get far because if there's something bothering you don't address it you just sit there with a smile.
Don't do that cause then the problem ( if there is one ) will just sit there growing. Speak your mind wear the pants in the relationship it's about respect to you know. 90 percent of relationship prosper when the partners respect each other.
Good like and I hope all goes well for you. (:
its the same exact way with me. usually the ones that I like aren't intrested in me what so ever I guess I give off this innocent persona. I'm very shy but others tell be to reach out there. your not doing anything wrong but I would suggest not to be shy. I hope things get better for you
I'm the same way. I'm super nice and pretty innocent haha. The guys that usually like me are the ones that are pot smokers, or the ones who like to party. Most of the nice guys I meet aren't interested, or don't ask me out. It's lame but whatever hahah
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Some might call me the "bad boy" type, in that I am a stoner, generally uninterested in following societal norms and have abused every substance I've ever consumed. Although I think "bad boy" is up to every persons own interpretation.
I am also on the autism spectrum, so in certain situations I can start to mentally breakdown and become extremely uncomfortable.
A few years ago I walked into a McDonalds late at night and I went to approach the kiosk to order, but I noticed there were people standing there so I sort of awkwardly stopped myself while I was trying to process what to do next.
These extremely beautiful group of university girls caught that and they started rudely laughing and pointing at me.
Immediately they went from beautiful to literally disgusting.
Then, I walked up to the counter so I could order from there instead and there was this blonde girl behind the counter. She wasn't as "conventionally" beautiful as the other girls.
But, she gave me this look of sympathy and then looked over at the other group of girls with a pissed off expression on her face.
I was instantly attracted to her. She went from not even in the top 10 to being the most beautiful girl in the building simply because I knew she was a good person.
I don't have a girlfriend currently but that's exactly the kind of person I would want to be with.
I don't think anyone likes mean people lol.
You seem like a very nice girl, and guys use that to string along, because your too nice they think you will be walked all over. It's not a bad thing to be nice, just make sure you have a backbone and don't them use your nice caring self.
okay listen hun. its not you at all. its the boys. your not doing anything wrong. they believe if they go to the nice girls they won't get hurt as bad..i use to be the "bad boy" until I realized I was better then that.honestly going for the bad boys just means your going to get hurt harder. just be smart in who you date. if you are falling for a bad boy. try to find a good boy. the good boys are all around you..you just need to look hun. if you have any questions pm me. =) hope I helped bye hun
Bad boys like "innocent girls".
Go looking for a geek. Most are nice, and total gentlemen, when given the chance.
I personally don't hate nice girls...I actually prefer nice girls :) They seem to truly be the only ones who really care about everything in your life...you are doing nothing wrong...just sounds like you may be a little shy..that's all.
the good guys are probably to shy to talk to you and the bad boys know how to approach girls in general make yourself more open to the good guys and approach in friendly flirty way when you catch them starring at u
Hard to get anywhere with a nice girl...maybe that's why they don't really try, kinda girl you marry...
ya every guy on earth hates nice girls passionately
I like nice girls since I'm a nice guy.
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