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Search Results: approaching girls in a bar
Confidence and Culture Shock
For a good period of my life, I struggled with the American notion of "confidence". It wasn't until I started to develop a very personal concept of what it is and what it means that I started to find something I could...
ak666
Editor Age: 45 Why All Women Should Play Hard to Get and Never Court a Man
So in today's society it's becoming accepted for a girl to approach a guy first, but as a man I can't express just how dangerous this is for the women, and what risks she is putting herself up for by doing this, Let me...
Aconfusedguy90
Xper 2 Age: 32 Girls, what are your thoughts on this with me?
I was in a committed relationship with my girlfriend. We lived together, and had very frank discussions about our plans for a future together. She really wants us to get married and have children, which is something I...
SoObjectivity
Xper 4 Age: 36 Girls, Shy Girl unresponsive?
This girl came back into my life recently at a bar and got me hooked. We're both in our late 20's, I have known her since high school, but really only on an acquaintance level. I'm tall, and handsome/attractive so I may...
89sasquatch
Xper 4 Age: 37 How do girls approach to the guys in club/bar?
I had couple of incident in bar like I'm waiting to order. A women also stood next to me to order. After sometimes she suddenly asked me like "What I'm doing in here", "How long I'm waiting to order" etc. In most cases, I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why will she approach me to ask if I wanted a cigarette?
Yesterday at a bar I was dancing with my friends and then I saw a pretty girl. I am I shy kinda guy so I just kept staring her (Not creepingly) at her at times and was sure she saw it. A while later outta nowhere she...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, How do you ask a girl out at a bar?
I've never been to a bar before, but now I can drink. I'll be going to a bar tomorrow and I want to know how to approach a random girl I don't know and strike up a conversation with her and make her interested. Is it...
Anonymous
(30-35) Does this shy guy like me? Did I scare him off? How should I proceed?
6 wks ago I got a message on FB from a guy that lives in my town, "Hey girl how's it going". We are both single parents. (He's 34 & I'm 25). He said he's been wanting to message me for a while & asked if I wanted to hang...
Anonymous
(30-35) Get Girls Like An Old Man
There are many obstacles to having a nice flow of options when choosing a mate. The major obstacle, however, are the rules of society. For women, it's an unwritten but commonly understood rule that girls don't approach...
pavlove
Editor Age: 34 What entices guys to approach a girl in a social setting?
Like a bar or something. I was wondering what qualities you see from afar makes you want to say hello?
ashleyrene
Xper 5 Age: 39 Have you ever cheated? If so, what is your cheating story?
I only did it once but I will never forget it. It was a girl from my high school. I had remembered her being good looking but when I saw her at my high school reunion, I had no idea she had turned out to be so sexy and...
Jimrat86
Xper 6 Age: 40 Opinion on the way a girl looks at a guy?
I till now have just observed, that girls always tend to keep their bar high when choosing guys, i came to notice this when i was the one getting all the sweet comments from girls on my dress, hairstyle how good i was...
UrAverageDude
Xper 4 Age: 25 What does it mean when a girl gives you direct eye contact and fish lips?
This chick who i met last year around the same time has been giving me mixed signals. When we first met, I approached her at the bar, and she seem disinterested. But when i was talking to a different girl id catch her...
SwolDishWasher
Xper 7 Age: 34 How do you let a female coworker know you're interested in her without it being sexual harassment?
I've always been afraid more than ever to approach any girl I work around and ask them out. The reason why is because "This is work, and it's professional, and you don't act in such a manner..." Weirder yet, if you...
AlienIshboo
Xper 5 Age: 39 I get that guys totally do this, because I hear about it all the time, but why?
So there's this guy who, once upon a time, we used to mess around from time to time (this was about a year ago). And by saying this, I mean we were literally just on a booty call basis, not in a relationship or anything....
Anonymous
(30-35) Place to meet women besides work, bars and clubs?
I work as a Line Cook, all dudes, so works not an option. I honestly just can't stand bars or clubs. But honestly, other than those 3, where else can I meet a girl without randomly approaching out of nowhere? (And no,...
IdkSomethingRandom
Xper 7 Age: 31 What can a guy do to get the confidence to approach a girl romantically/flirtingly when even when drunk he's too shy to do it?
So I'm 22 and have never been on a date or done literally anything with a girl. I've been to parties and bars and even when drunk and a girl at least appears to be somewhat receptive to me I still am too afraid to...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I forgive? Or move on?
I've been dating this guy for a year. I've known him since I was 17, but we started dating when I was 21. We weren't in the same place for a while, and were hookup buddies when he would come in town. He is the only guy I...
gumbie123
Xper 4 Age: 31 Am I becoming a jerk?
So I’ve always been a really shy guy. Never kissed or got touchy with any girl till recently (I’m in my 20’s). It’s actually pretty normal since I’m living in Asia and the people here are generally very conservative and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why He's Not Getting a Second Date
I'd like to share with you guys an example of what NOT to do when going on a date with a girl. I went on a date with a guy on Wednesday. We met up close to 7 at a hole-in-the-wall bar and coffee shop. Very cozy place. I...
Anonymous
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