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Let say this guy chat with 6 ladies (one of the lady - me, he has slept with multiple times)

1. To me (that he has slept with), he acts like he is a womanizer and put an impression as if there is another woman sleep with him. Fyi, I already show to him that I likes him a lot and loyal.

2. To the other 5 ladies (that he hasn't meet yet), he always say that he is alone, lonely, bored, want to have a relationship, want to have emotional connection. And I don't know how he will do it, he promise all those 5 for a date next week.

And every morning, he send flowery texts to these 5, but not to me. With me, 85% of the communication is initiated by me

So which one is his trueself? And I kinda shock how he treat me different than those 5. I am not sure anymore which one is his trueself.

So me and my boyfriend got into a small tiff, not like a relationship ruining argument or anything but it kinda irritated me.

We visit his mom at least once a week which is fine, she's taking care of her brother's baby who is almost 2. He's a sweet little boy, beautiful. His parents are addicted to drugs though which is why he's with my boyfriend's mom.
Anyway my boyfriend wanted to wash his car while we were there (we live in an apartment with no where to wash, so he does this in his mom's yard) and on his way outside he asked if the baby wanted to come outside , and then said "she can watch him while I wash the car." By SHE he meant me.
He didn't even ask me if I wanted too or minded. And I don't mind kids, and I want one MAYBE 2 of my own one day, but I always get uncomfortable when around OTHER people's kids. I find them cute, but I don't like to be put in charge or left alone with them because I get nervous when they cry or what if they get hurt.

Such was the case. I just didn't feel comfortable watching him, and also I had brought my Nintendo switch with me because I had every intention of playing it while my boyfriend washed his car. (He usually spends 4 hours washing so I get kinda bored waiting on him). But because he volunteered me to watch the baby not only did I get no say, but also I had to spend my day off work babysitting.

He didn't understand why I was mad and replied "I thought you'd want too."

Am I the A-hole here?