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Background: So there's a guy who I have been involved with for almost a year and a half. I have known him for over 8 years, he is actually an old friend of mine's older brother. We started talking just as friends at first, and we started talking more, and then it got to everyday every minute. After a couple months of that he was a little tipsy and texted me that he didn't want to make anything weird, but that he really liked me and wished that we were closer in age because I would be someone he would pursue a relationship with (He's 5 years older). I obviously had similar feelings and expressed that. Soon after we started hanging out, and the first time we were alone we had sex. We go get ice cream and lunch, but everytime we are alone in a room we end up having sex (which isn't often - I am out of town for school for most of the year).

We talk to each other from the moment we wake up in the morning till the moment we go to bed. I know about all his friends and his work and he knows about mine. I can confide in him.

I am confused as to what he wants. I feel sometimes like I am just a filler until he finds something he truly wants. I know communication sounds like the obvious answer, but I do not know exactly how to go about it without ending our current relations.

Do you think he wants a relationship? How long do these type of things usually last? Should I see his lack of want of a relationship based on age as a sign that I am filler?

I'm very happy with my boyfriend and we talk as much as we can, but we don't get to see each other much. In the past week since I last saw him, I've had three dreams with other guys in them: In the first, my closest friend (a guy) came up to me and kissed me on the cheek twice. This friend has ignored me for a week now without a reason, and my sister was also with us and I haven't seen her in a month. In the second, the Devil took the form of a random hot guy and there were a bunch of other girls around but he chose me and told me to have sex with him. I said I have a boyfriend and ran away (I'm not even religious). In the third, an old classmate from elementary school and I were on a school bus that was driving through a storm and he protected me and just held me in his arms. Another friend was with us, a girl who moved away a few years ago.
Are these dreams about people I miss, or is it my subconscious telling me I want more affection in my relationship? Or that I want to be single? I want to dream about my boyfriend, not these guys!!

Sooo just to get to the point.. I met this Cuban guy who is 4 years younger than me... ( I'm Black) over a month and some weeks ago, and ever since we have text non-stop everyday.. We decided to get together just to hang out a feel each other vibe more, and I guess it worked out cause we still text each other all day everyday when we are not together.

For the past few weeks We have been together all day everyday (except for when I have to work or he does). I asked him why he is single (he told me stories about his Ex.. I guess she hurt him bad) He say's he just likes being single.. So to play it off I say I do too.. Don't have to answer to anyone and blah blah blah..

Well this past week, we have met each others families and him and my son take a huuuge liking to each other (like when they play video games or sports they're in the zone lol... I think its cute) He introduced me to most of his Family that lives here. He tells me that I am his Obligation (what does that even mean)

And even though he only been talking for 1.5 months when a crazy argument occurred with someone I knew (of no fault of my own) he soothed me and said he wasn't going anywhere.. We both talk about Friends of the opposite sex.. but last night he said "He doesn't see other women.. He doesn't pay them any mind" and thinks Im more beautiful without make-up and stuff. And we cuddle more than I am comfortable with as a "Friend" and lastly Im wary of acknowledging any feelings for him because he supposed to move back down South within the next month or 2...

Can someone help me decipher the mystery of the extremely gorgeous Cuban guy?