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Just to clarify, I find my girlfriend very attractive physically and mentally. I constnatly remind her of this whether she likes it or not because I adore her. However I do have racial preferences. These preferences aren't set in stone (like I don't only go after certain races). I find many attractive women in all races including her. As a matter of fact, I've never dated a girl of the race that is my "favorite." My preferences rests in the fact that within my "favorite" race, I typically find that they have a higher perecentage of physically attractive women and their features tend to usually be more soft and feminine. This preference is purely physical attraction and is not fueled by social norms or stereotypes. However, every human is different whether it be interracially or intraracially which means that some are pretty and some are not. I can easily find a black girl who is more attractive than a white girl or a white girl who is more attractive than an Asian girl. The problem is that she feels "inadequate" and she feels as though me dating her is a downgrade of what I can potentially have simply because she doesn't fall within my "racial preference". I explained to her on numerous occasions how the preference works and that the race itself isn't the deciding factor. I wouldn't immediately become more attracted to her just because of her ethnicity. It's the individual girl and how beautiful she is. And before anyone decides to judge me, obviously personality and emotional compatibility is the most important thing which she is already 100% aware of. She knows how I feel about her and she knows how attracted I am to her both physically and mentally. DO you feel that she should be upset with me over this? Please explain your votes.

Basically, I was dating this girl for a year and things were actually going really well. The only problem was that her parents were racist against someone of my ethnicity but we never let that get in the way. In fact it may of even made our relationship stronger. So basically we went to different colleges and she was starting to get depressed that we could never see each other. Meanwhile, there was a boy at her college that I could very easily tell was interested in her. She constantly assured me that she was not interested in him. Fast forwarding through my fall semester she ended up breaking up with me right after Thanksgiving and we didn't talk again until Christmas and she told me that she had sex with that guy and that she regretted it. Even though we broke up I was angry and stopped talking to her again. then like 4 months go by and we start talking again and i find out she had sex with him several more times.. she still claims never to have felt anything for him but she was just emotionally numb and didn't care about anything.. I know thats not an excuse for anyhing but I do seriously love this girl. The fact that she is pregnant is KILLING ME.. Especially since i've hated the dude since day one but I feel even worse without her in my life.. like emotionally dead.. and I didn't take her back but i assured her Id be here for her... and Im just not sure if its right.. I feel like if I truly love her I should be able to move pass this.. I believe she's putting the child up for adoption in order to return to school but.. Should I keep talking to her? or should I teach her a lesson and stop talking to her? I honestly dont know if im capable of just being friends with her either.. Its kina all or nothing in this case.. My honest opinion is that I love her and I want what we had back more than anything..

1. Melissa



Age:23
Ethnicity:Asian
Education:Graduated with a degree in Gender studies
Job: Professional cheerleader for 49ers
Orientation:Straight

Info:
Spent her 4 years in college dating 34 yr old guy and dumped him after he paid off her loans.
Has had 5 LTR but smashed over 50 dudes
Was a cheerleader in high school and continued being one into college
Works out 3 days a week in the gym, and eats healthy
Very controlling and likes to manipulate people
Puts on a bitchy persona to people who she doesn't know.
Is not down for anything in sex

2. Mia



Age:22
Ethnicity:Latina
Education: Graduated with a degree in Sports science
Job:Sports therapist
Orientation:Straight

Info:
Father died of a heart attack when she was 6 years old.
Is into football, and would most likely cheat on you with a football player whose moderately successful.
Can cook 8/10 meals.
Is down for anything at home, but does not like showing affection other than kissing out in public.
Works out by doing running in the mornings
Likes to start drama on occasions, but overall is submissive.
Very jealous of your ex-GF and has accused you of cheating in the past.

3. Gisele



Age:24
Ethnicity: Caucasian
Education: Degree in Cosmotology
Job: Professional model
Orientation: Bisexual

Info:
Both parents still together
Comes from a christian family and is very religious
Dated for most of her life aesthetic and rich guys.
In college she had LTR with her best friend who she still keeps in touch with.
Has a princess complex and expect you to treat her as such.
Can hold a conversation with you but gives off the impression of an airhead when she talks.
Rarely spends time with you since she has to travel a lot to do different photo shoots. However, she does sex chats with you over Skype to compensate.
Her last 2 boyfriends were photographers she worked with.

4. Rebecca